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when the actors saved the show.
The 3 episodes are totally boring but from 4th, the episodes become very catchy... the production had a genius idea a law firm that solved marital problems, yet during 12 episodes, we had 3 cases and the rest of the show a boring dialogue, skipped.The scenario is sorely lacking in depth and solid background, for example the character of "Zheng Ze Shou" accepts the love of his friend just so as not to lose his friendship with him which dates back 20 years, something illogical and useless... His father who refuses his homosexual relationship, instead of deepening this, he is treated as (old fashion) as if his son is following a fashion (personally I was shocked)... The character of "Fu Li Gong" is in love with his friend since high school, and "Zheng Ze Shou" knows it very well yet when he accepts "Fu Li gong's" illogical and bogus argument and part ways with him... frankly, whatever.
For me, the Great Discovery is the extremely talented actor "Shi Cheng Hao", very deep in his acting, his emotional traits or his intimate scenes, something extremely rare with handsome actors who hide their bad acting in the scenes. intimate (like the Bl Thai) ... or who are good actors but too reserved in the daring scenes Bl.
The actor "Max Lin" is an excellent actor too only if he stops his extremely theatrical way of acting which does not adhere at all with his character or the romantic series.
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Mundane, but Good.
This is more of a the life story of two divorce lawyers who've gone through thick and think together their whole lives.What's good about it? The leads definitely. Their characters are just the opposite of each other, but their genuine care and understanding for another was excellently portrayed. (I've yet to see a Taiwanese series with mediocre actors. These two were really good.)
There are several scenes where they talk about how they view their profession and divorce which I found enlightening.
The second couple was Yuki, a laundromat owner whose name I still do not know and his daughter Ling Ling. They depicted a different side of life - one of them being cool and unafraid of changes while the other adamantly sticks to the ghosts of the past.
Plenty of supporting characters, both big and insignificant play a role in shaping their actions, so, skipping some parts of it might be not the best idea. (I did it and had yo backtrack and rewatch to know thr context.)
While I did like the couples, the cases and the parental relationships, there were episodes which could've been significantly shorter. Mind you, this is roughly 25minutes each, but the episodes following EP7 where unfortunately, a bit too... ad nauseam? This is a common problem in dramas as a whole, LGBTQ+ or not. Once the main point is done, they fumble around. But, the pacing did pick up, but the drama lost me at EPs 8 - 10.
I'd recommed this if you just need something to cool off.
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Doesn't even come close to the current standard for BLs
I chose to give the series a 6 instead of a 5 because, at the end of the day, I was able to watch the whole thing. I want to list the things that I liked about it in case you're undecided but you're looking for reasons to start watching.- The main characters look good together. I felt that their scenes were pretty cute, enough to keep me engaged. I also heard that Max and Hao are an actual couple in real life (cmiiw): if that's true then watching the series is a good way to support queer representation from people who are actually queer themselves.
- The story is straightforward and there's no risk to lose track of anything going on. The episodes are also about half an hour each, so it doesn't take too long to finish either, in case you're looking for something that isn't too demanding.
- In case you're a fan of Taiwanese BLs, you can find a few cameos from different BLs, more specifically: "Be Loved In House: I Do", "HIStory 3: MODC", and "HIStory 4".
Unfortunately the good things I can say about this series end here. Now, for what I found disappointing:
- The plot. The main trope is "childhood-friends-to-lovers", which is a very popular trope, but I believe that one can easily work with the most popular trope and give a creative spin to it. This doesn't happen in P&M, where it looks like the writers just filled the story with tropes and clichés and expected them to work on their own, without proper writing. The events arrive one after another without any sort of smooth transition, build-up, or even logic. I felt like I was watching a live-action fanfic, and I'm not talking about the good kind of fanfic.
- The two main characters are supposed to be best friends, but to be entirely honest they looked more like colleagues who get along. Their so-called chemistry was nowhere to be found, unless you consider cheesy set phrases and kisses "chemistry". The development of their feelings and thoughts is not there either, so I felt confused the entire time about whether they actually liked each other or not, since it looks like they're just going with the flow.
- The secondary couple, if possible, was worse. I felt like they could have been replaced by two mannequins, and the plot would still work somehow. As crazy as it might sound, I thought that Li Gong and Ze Shou's fathers were a better romantic couple than them, without even being a couple in the first place.
Overall, it felt sloppy. I can see the potential in a story like this one, so I don't believe that it's complete rubbish, but the result overall feels undercooked. If refined and taken proper care of, it could be MUCH better. As it is, I can't bring myself to recommend it.
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Theme driven. Characters and plot are superficial
There was good stuff here. Some interesting themes and thought-provoking ideas. A pretty good mix of humor and angst. The actors did a good job. And I always adore childhood-friends-to-lovers. Overall, it was pretty good. But I was a little disorientated by some choices. It appeared the show was more invested in exploring the nature of divorce generally, than focusing on the MCs, their relationship/s, or any character specific plot. Which isn't wrong. Some people might enjoy it. But I felt some important moments weren't quite given the attention they deserved.I loved the main couple, individually and as a couple. The start of their relationship was great. I loved that we got hints they'd both been in love forever, but Fu Li Gong became aware of it much, much earlier—which fits their characters. Given Zheng Ze Shou's personality, I'm not surprised he went turbo-fast once he became aware of his own feelings. Li Gong's freak out in the second half also made sense. He hid his feelings for a long time, scared of how their relationship might change; then everything did change, very suddenly, without any warning, and he didn't have the chance to process the changes or the consequences of the changes. A freak out at some point was inevitable, and I probably would've been disappointed if it hadn't come. Even so, I think the show didn't handle that entire conflict as well as it could have. Even though I understand why Li Gong reacted like he did, the show only presented the surface level. They accidentally make his anxieties seem shallow, and like he came to that decision unbelievably easily, given how invested he was in the relationship. The resolution is also a bit too easy, given the big emotions must have been going on. Given how long these two loved each other, and how much they had to lose if things went wrong (which is the entire point of the childhood-friends-to-lovers trope!!) the whole conflict kinda played out like just another disagreement and reconciliation. That being said, I like that Ze Shou eventually called him out (gently) for lying.
I don't really have much to say about the second couple. They were okay to watch, but I didn't get invested in them. Don't know why. They just didn't grab my attention.
In summary, I'm glad I watched it, and I might re-watch it to see how I feel the second time around. If my opinion changes I'll add a note to the end of this review. It's possible I was just thrown off by how unusual the show was in it's approach. Normally, a show that explores a super deep and emotional concept like divorce, will mirror that depth and emotion in the relationships. This show didn't quite match the energy. They went deep on the concept, but didn't mirror that intensity at all in the relationships, so I was left feeling the relationships were surface level and lacking (even though I might not have otherwise felt that way). All that said, I'm not sure that this approach would suit my taste anyway. I can like shows that keep things light. I like shows that take things deep. But if I can only have deep themes or deep relationship, I'd rather a deep relationship with light themes, than heavy themes with relatively surface-level relationship. But that's just me. If I end up re-watching it (which I'm not sure I will) I'll let you know if I change my mind on anything.
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Better than expected!
Thought this would be one of those no plots, no theme, no chemistry, 20-30 min per episode drama, but wow. This drama blew my mind with the two MLS chemistry. The storyline was good. I've seen way worse bl dramas that didn't deserve the high rating. I think this drama needs a better higher rating.??????????????
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this show is so wholesome
this show is so wholesome. bro, Yuki is the most intense dude I have ever seen, he is so perplexing (he's actually a cat that was turned into a human, that's why he's like That). the couple that has had multiple cameo apperances in my BLs were getting a divorce in this one :( it was so sad, i felt like my parents were getting a divorce, Fu Ligong has the sweetest puppy eyes, i'm melting, how is his boy still standing after 20 years of that face. this show had Weird music. omg THE BLUE CAMP GOO HE MADE, he's so cute.Was this review helpful to you?
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cute drama & worth the watch, but many plot holes
This drama is a tad overhyped in the comments…Story: it was dry at parts and the relationship backstories where kind of confusing, because there where a lot of flashbacks and plot holes. The difficulties they have with their relationships felt so thrown in to make the drama longer. There was a lot of symbolic moments and flashbacks… it got kinda cheesy after a while. Also, the main couple both worked as divorce lawyers and that part I found just a tad dull at times. The ending also felt pretty elaborate and I skipped most of it as I felt like the drama was already to a close enough.
Acting: Honestly what saved this drama. Both couples had good chemistry and I enjoyed watching their relationships progress. While there where cliche parts, overall it was so wholesome and the way the actors portrayed everything made it okay. There’s this really cute girl, Ling Ling, and she made the drama just a 100 times cuter!
Music: pretty good. I actually kinda liked the song.
Rewatched: I feel like it’s hard to rewatch dramas to begin with, but I definitely say this one is worth at least one if you have the time.
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Quintessential bromance to romance
A+Like kiwi, bitter at first bite with a sweet aftertaste.
I want to give it the same critics as Be Loved in House: I Do, i.e., not a top tier drama but still a very much appreciated discovery. The difference is that the former is a slow burn romance whereas the latter is a bromance quickly turned into a strongly built long term romantic relationship. Once you acknowledge your deepest feelings for someone, it's almost impossible to go backwards as though these feelings could disappear as easily as they emerged.
Give in and let it in!
Another aspect I felt was even stronger in this one is that the actors seem even more comfortable with each other, to the point where people have even questioned the actors' relationship. HEAR ME OUT! Nobody has the right to judge what's beside the work. Stay in your place and let people live.
This drama is all in all a strong recommendation.
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not good plot
i guess its watchable but not close to being my favorite at all, when i watched the first eps i completed them fully but later on i lost my patience lol so i skipped a lot of scenes but watched the rest, i only watched for the main couplethe chemistry of the MLs is good (the main couple) ,no wonder they are together in real life
i didnt like the second couple they did look awkward but not bad i guess
while the plot is so meh fr and very cliche , the most negative point of this serie is the plot
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This one is good and rewatchable
Taiwanese bls dont het the hype they deserve. Some of the best bls if seen come from Taiwan. I actually appreciate them a little more because they tackle more adult characters and story lines. This was an intersting bl and I liked the dynamic of them being friends for decades not realizing or at least confessing until well into their careers. I hadnt seen it in a bl before. The main leads did a great job.Was this review helpful to you?
Enjoyable, but a bit too much side plot that takes away from the stars.
Plus and Minus is interesting as the two main leads have been high school friends. They now live and work together. Usually in BLs, either they love in high school, or they meet later in life. This makes the story pretty interesting from the start. Most of the characters are enjoyable, and the main couple is extremely attractive. You can tell they care about each other.Overall, the drama is fine, but spends too much time on the character's jobs instead of the relationships. This does make the story more realistic but less interesting. Maybe I am more excited for the love aspect rather than the divorce lawyer job aspect but I wish this was less detailed so their love could shine more. I ended up fast-forwarding a good part of the series.
When they do have couple moments its all really good. The kisses are very passionate and they look amazing. The ending was a little annoying but it was resolved so its good.
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