Yup Xinger is at the top of his list, even before his kids and they know it too and that's why father and son always fight with each other...His son is cheeky too he makes YWY speechless with his answers it's so funny!!
The Yu Wen family is all about face...they disowned him and trashed him before and after the 2 years when he rebuilt his power and career they put him up on the pedestal...YWY knows this but after all he says this is the family that afforded him a comfortable childhood and luxuries so he can't turn his back on them...before their wedding ceremony his extended family came to greet Xinger and there was one cousin who was a brat and a smart ass and made back-handed comments to insult Xinger and the result was Xinger slapped her in front of everybody lol...this cousin brought in this other girl who was YWY's childhood love to make Xinger jealous and Xinger showed her who's boss lol...Xinger is really bad ass!!
There's also this funny comment Xinger made in the book after she returned to ChangAn "I don't know how YWY did it, but it's as if he made all these people in ChangAn have amnesia or something because they all seem to forget that I was the one who burned down houses, killed so many people, destroyed this city when YX and I fought our way out of this city, now they all come here to greet me as if they don't remember who I was before."
This shows you the power that YWY had...another major turn of events after the 2 years is that YWY not only became QingHai king, but he was also the great general of 4 armies of Wei state, which means he held all the military power for Wei. YWY said he was only below 1 person, but above millions!! That's right folks, our man YWY came back from the dead as a bad ass general everyone feared, even the king himself. :)
