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Evie Zan

Hi fellow Moonies! Seems everyone is traveling and having fun. I also wanna travel too but guess just have to wait till my football players/ boxers arrive. Still no sign of coming out. Seems like very much enjoying themselves inside me! 

Planning to travel after our mini Moonies turns around 3 months.  Hehehe. You guys are inspiring me and my hubby.

Anyone watching any dramas? I'm still enjoy watching Melody of Golden Age.  Don't like the love making scenes though. Seems like lacking in passion.  Making me miss our YunLu love scenes in TTEOM. Hehehe.  

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Fiona
 Megumi-H:

HiHi, went there for scuba dive and snorkeling. Cool ocean and pretty coral reels.

Wow, you are really travelling around different parts of China. I have been to YunNan before, love its costume and culture. Went there to hike and see rice fields, very beautiful landscape;)

Yes yes YunNan is in my list . XiAn as well. Walking stairs is a problem for me but I try my best. 

Love to do snorkeling one day. There is a place in Malaysia allow to swim with the turtle. Would like to do that one day.

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 Evie Zan:

Hi fellow Moonies! Seems everyone is traveling and having fun. I also wanna travel too but guess just have to wait till my football players/ boxers arrive. Still no sign of coming out. Seems like very much enjoying themselves inside me! 

Planning to travel after our mini Moonies turns around 3 months.  Hehehe. You guys are inspiring me and my hubby.

Anyone watching any dramas? I'm still enjoy watching Melody of Golden Age.  Don't like the love making scenes though. Seems like lacking in passion.  Making me miss our YunLu love scenes in TTEOM. Hehehe.  

I won’t be able to travel with babies. You are so brave. I will be filled with anxiety and all. Respect yeah.

I am watching Melody of golden age as well. Not many episodes completed only 17 episodes didn’t see that scene yet hahaha. Watching kdramas and 1 jdrama as well.  Busy to add another cdrama too. 

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Evie Zan
 Fiona_HOD:

I won’t be able to travel with babies. You are so brave. I will be filled with anxiety and all. Respect yeah.

I am watching Melody of golden age as well. Not many episodes completed only 17 episodes didn’t see that scene yet hahaha. Watching kdramas and 1 jdrama as well.  Busy to add another cdrama too. 

Not that brave. By the time our mini Moonies aka dragon babies turns 3 months, it'll be freaking cold in NY. Also sun and sea is good for you. Well just assume that coz I love sun and sea plus my hubby loves surfing.  Also we already hired NCS for our mini Moonies. And my hubby packed mostly when we travel last year with our mini Moonies (our triplets).  Hehehe. So I'm not stressed. Before we have babies we used to travel whenever we can so guess we're just sorta use to it . Although we were a bit worry when we traveled with our mini Moonies for the first time, everything turned out ok. Also not planning to travel outside US. 

Apart from love making scenes, I really enjoyed watching Melody Golden Age.  Thank God it finished before our dragon babies arrive. No idea what to watch after this. Probably gonna be a while before I start new drama. 

Hopefully our dragon babies arrive soon. Right now no sign of labor. Not even one of those Braxton Hicks Contractions, well apart from playing football inside me and very active. 

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Fiona

“Not that brave. By the time our mini Moonies aka dragon babies turns 3 months, it'll be freaking cold in NY. Also sun and sea is good for you. Well just assume that coz I love sun and sea plus my hubby loves surfing.  Also we already hired NCS for our mini Moonies. And my hubby packed mostly when we travel last year with our mini Moonies (our triplets).  Hehehe. So I'm not stressed. Before we have babies we used to travel whenever we can so guess we're just sorta use to it . Although we were a bit worry when we traveled with our mini Moonies for the first time, everything turned out ok. Also not planning to travel outside US.”


You have triplets and now twins too? Wow! Easy to take care? I had cared for twins from where I used to work I was like so exhausted hahhahaha one cry the other will cry as well.  And there were 2 teachers caring for them as well.  Really respect you. Wow I always have hard time even to pack for myself. Your husband is so supportive.

“Apart from love making scenes, I really enjoyed watching Melody Golden Age.  Thank God it finished before our dragon babies arrive. No idea what to watch after this. Probably gonna be a while before I start new drama.”

I actually love it when their romance developed at 17 now and can see that. There are many cdramas releasing too. So tiring to chase so many. I have not even go to Go West and Are you the one too. After watching Lost you forever these actors really getting my attention. I hope DengWei drama will come quickly too. He was the one why I watch Lost you forever ended I was paying attention to the other two ask well. Don’t forget to update when your dragon babies arrived.

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Evie Zan

You have triplets and now twins too? Wow! Easy to take care? I had cared for twins from where I used to work I was like so exhausted hahhahaha one cry the other will cry as well.  And there were 2 teachers caring for them as well.  Really respect you. Wow I always have hard time even to pack for myself. Your husband is so supportive.

Hehehe Thank God having only twins this time. When we decided to have babies we are hoping to have one baby but well turned out that we're having triplets. Although scared out of mind, there's nothing we can do. We also hoped to have at least one baby girl but then only boys. A bit unhappy about it but it's out of our hands anyway. We want to have a baby girl so we decided to try another time after our mini Moonies turns 1 yr old but then a little oops and then our dragon babies! Thank God there's at least one baby girl this time around. In my opinion, having one baby is already hard enough especially if you are having babies for the first time, let alone 3. But thank God, we can afford to hire NCS(New Born Care Specialist). So we're not stressed. Tiring at times even with help but we managed. Having babies changes everything in your life but for us it's definitely worth it. Married happily for 5 years before we have babies definitely help in our opinion. Parenting thing is definitely a tough one. Still learning and coping as we go. Definitely need support system though, otherwise you might go crazy. We have large family so we have plenty of help. Plus we decided to hire NCS and midwife soon after we found out that we're having triplets. Having professional help is such a huge stress relieve! And we can sleep and relax because of them. In our opinion, NCS and midwife are saints! 

For packing, I always packed light. My skin care plus a few esse beauty products, 2-3 fancy dresses for our dinner dates, 2 yoga pants, 2 jean shorts or jeans, plus 2 tees and 1 shirt and 2 tops for a week or more travels. Of course a bikini, lingerie, and under garments. Also normally I love to shop while traveling so I don't need to pack much. My hubby is indeed very supportive. He doesn't mind helping out with our house hold chores either. 

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Fiona

“Hehehe Thank God having only twins this time. When we decided to have babies we are hoping to have one baby but well turned out that we're having triplets. Although scared out of mind, there's nothing we can do. We also hoped to have at least one baby girl but then only boys. A bit unhappy about it but it's out of our hands anyway. We want to have a baby girl so we decided to try another time after our mini Moonies turns 1 yr old but then a little oops and then our dragon babies! Thank God there's at least one baby girl this time around.”

Yayyyyyyyy girl. I was opposite lol. I have first two girls and decide to try again for boy hahhaah God’s gift two boys now. Age gap quite far for the youngest child. I always wanted a set of twins but no luck. Husband side has twins but guess not because I don’t think my side has any.  Teaching kindergarten 10 years ago and now so much different. I wish I only have my kids now as I learned a lot about child development and all. Now when I teach so much knowledge need to learn/ know. I love language but my brain doesn’t work hahaha old already. Picking up sign language as well. They say baby sign language is useful. I even stop working so I don’t know what to do whatever I learnt guess I will wait for my grandchildren Hahahhaha 

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Evie Zan

I actually love it when their romance developed at 17 now and can see that. There are many cdramas releasing too. So tiring to chase so many. I have not even go to Go West and Are you the one too. After watching Lost you forever these actors really getting my attention. I hope DengWei drama will come quickly too. He was the one why I watch Lost you forever ended I was paying attention to the other two ask well. Don’t forget to update when your dragon babies arrived.

I like their romantic scenes. Just thought loving making aka bedroom scenes are flat somehow ? Just not steamy enough in my opinion. Apart from that I enjoy watching it. 

Yeah I will definitely update when our dragon babies arrive!  

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Evie Zan

Yayyyyyyyy girl. I was opposite lol. I have first two girls and decide to try again for boy hahhaah God’s gift two boys now. Age gap quite far for the youngest child. I always wanted a set of twins but no luck. Husband side has twins but guess not because I don’t think my side has any.  Teaching kindergarten 10 years ago and now so much different. I wish I only have my kids now as I learned a lot about child development and all. Now when I teach so much knowledge need to learn/ know. I love language but my brain doesn’t work hahaha old already. Picking up sign language as well. They say baby sign language is useful. I even stop working so I don’t know what to do whatever I learnt guess I will wait for my grandchildren Hahahhaha

Twins and triplets run in both sides of our family. I have twins and triplets elder brothers. Twins and triplets cousins too. My hubby has no siblings but lots of cousins who he grew up with though. Wow 2 girls! Guess I will have to settle with one! Always dreamed to have baby girls though. Not brave enough to try again. Done having babies after to this one. My U factory is officially closed after our dragon babies! Can relax a little as our mini Moonies started to go to nursery. Although it's far from our home it's quite close to their grandparents' homes. Seems to enjoy their nursery so that's a huge relief. Only half day for 3 days per week now. Early learning and all that. Hahaha. Only turned 28 this year so not ready to be a grandma yet. Still learning parenting thing and we haven't screw up yet as far as we know, thank God for that. 

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Fiona

“Twins and triplets run in both sides of our family. I have twins and triplets elder brothers. Twins and triplets cousins too. My hubby has no siblings but lots of cousins who he grew up with though. Wow 2 girls! Guess I will have to settle with one! Always dreamed to have baby girls though. Not brave enough to try again. Done having babies after to this one. My U factory is officially closed after our dragon babies! Can relax a little as our mini Moonies started to go to nursery. Although it's far from our home it's quite close to their grandparents' homes. Seems to enjoy their nursery so that's a huge relief. Only half day for 3 days per week now. Early learning and all that. Hahaha. Only turned 28 this year so not ready to be a grandma yet. Still learning parenting thing and we haven't screw up yet as far as we know, thank God for that.”

Yeah I heard if triplets or twins run in the mother’s family only more likely able to have them. Mine is only father’s side. 

Wish I am in my late 20s at this kind of time so I can be a better mother. Everything was left in a mess back then. Books available were how to make healthy food for babies and nothing about development. Maybe I didn’t know or whatsoever. But too late now have to do all these wonderful things for my future grandchildren hahahah. Late 40s almost at the 5 soon hahahha btw feel so old already.

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Evie Zan

Yeah I heard if triplets or twins run in the mother’s family only more likely able to have them. Mine is only father’s side. 

Yeah heard about it but guess it's highly likely for me as there're twins and triplets run in both sides of our family. 

Wish I am in my late 20s at this kind of time so I can be a better mother. Everything was left in a mess back then. Books available were how to make healthy food for babies and nothing about development. Maybe I didn’t know or whatsoever. But too late now have to do all these wonderful things for my future grandchildren hahahah. Late 40s almost at the 5 soon hahahha btw feel so old already.

I married not long after I got my degree so maybe that's why I'm a mama in late 20s. As for children development, more like we're still learning as we go. And with Dragon lady(aka my mom) watching like a hawk, less chance of screwing up. She expects nothing less than perfect from her children. My mom in law is much more easy going but guess not when it comes to education and development I guess. But we sorta almost screw up as we don't even think to look around for nursery while I 'm still pregnant with our mini Moonies. That thought never crossed our minds but we got a rude wake up call when we went to a dinner party. When the hostess asked us which nursery we chose, we were really surprised. Not a good experience though. Thank God every thing went well with the help of my mom in law and my mom. We chose the school in Manhattan coz can attend same school till 12th grade. We just thought stability is better for our babies. Also most of the schools in Hudson Valley are religious, so we just don't like the idea of it very much. Private schools in Manhattan are more open and also like the fact that they teach multi languages. We just thought our kids will get benefits in the long run and also because I'm Buddhist and my hubby is Catholic. 

Why is over 40s considered old? Isn't your forties considered your Golden Years? Kids are more or less grown up so isn't it time to enjoy your life? 

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Fiona

“I married not long after I got my degree so maybe that's why I'm a mama in late 20s. As for children development, more like we're still learning as we go. And with Dragon lady(aka my mom) watching like a hawk, less chance of screwing up. She expects nothing less than perfect from her children. My mom in law is much more easy going but guess not when it comes to education and development I guess. But we sorta almost screw up as we don't even think to look around for nursery while I 'm still pregnant with our mini Moonies. That thought never crossed our minds but we got a rude wake up call when we went to a dinner party. When the hostess asked us which nursery we chose, we were really surprised. Not a good experience though. Thank God every thing went well with the help of my mom in law and my mom. We chose the school in Manhattan coz can attend same school till 12th grade. We just thought stability is better for our babies. Also most of the schools in Hudson Valley are religious, so we just don't like the idea of it very much. Private schools in Manhattan are more open and also like the fact that they teach multi languages. We just thought our kids will get benefits in the long run and also because I'm Buddhist and my hubby is Catholic.”

Same I married after my degree and became a mum after a year married. At that time we couldn’t afford a nursery and my heart told me that I need to take care of my baby myself. I know if what I did now or learned, could be useful when I have my own child. Now I only can use on other people children. My time many only told me able how I must cook for my baby no one talks about development and that kind of things. How to raise son or daughter books like those only can be found. I meant those based on experiences while development based on theory and stuff. I am not sure which is right and seem the theory and stuff are more useful I feel.  

I am on the way to “5” so yes I do feel old hahhaha. 3 of my kids are done college/university while 1 still in high school. So really feel like I am missing them when they are children .

Yes we do learn multi languages here and most of Chinese here has 1 dialect to learn. However, need to be depend on that family how they brought their children up. There are Chinese who cannot speak Chinese.

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Evie Zan

Same I married after my degree and became a mum after a year married. At that time we couldn’t afford a nursery and my heart told me that I need to take care of my baby myself. I know if what I did now or learned, could be useful when I have my own child. Now I only can use on other people children. My time many only told me able how I must cook for my baby no one talks about development and that kind of things. How to raise son or daughter books like those only can be found. I meant those based on experiences while development based on theory and stuff. I am not sure which is right and seem the theory and stuff are more useful I feel.  

For us, we decided to wait coz I was only around 22 yrs almost 23, when we get married. And just started my own rose farm at that time. My hubby already have his own business as he's over 3 years older than me.  We also have to demo my old house at that time and build a new one coz it's a bit old and one bedroom house really. Both of us don't like the idea of staying with your parents after getting married. So bought a RV home and live there while our home is building. Not really good to have kids. So we decided to wait and focus on our relationship, business and life. Turned out it's a good idea for us coz now we don't have to worry about our future. Got a chance to know each other better and grow. 

Guess development and such become more popular nowadays?  Maybe also depend time? But on the bright side, all your kids have grown up so you can let go and relax a bit? Maybe find something you enjoy and passionate about. Time to start enjoy little moments in life. Smell the roses and all that. And also you are now officially free from crying babies! No more breast feeding! So many things to celebrate! 

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Fiona

“Maybe find something you enjoy and passionate about. Time to start enjoy little moments in life. Smell the roses and all that. And also you are now officially free from crying babies! No more breast feeding! So many things to celebrate!”

Hahaha yes yes. Now completely free from crying kids/babies. I just taking a big break from working in a daycare center. 
I started celebrating my life now. Traveling and watching more dramas :) :)

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Evie Zan
 Fiona_HOD:

“Maybe find something you enjoy and passionate about. Time to start enjoy little moments in life. Smell the roses and all that. And also you are now officially free from crying babies! No more breast feeding! So many things to celebrate!”

Hahaha yes yes. Now completely free from crying kids/babies. I just taking a big break from working in a daycare center. 
I started celebrating my life now. Traveling and watching more dramas :) :)

Good for you Fiona dear. Though still a long long way for us to free from crying babies, me and my hubby try our best to enjoy our life. Looking forward to when our babies grow up while trying our best creating a memorable time with our babies. Hopefully we don't screw up with parenting thing. 

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