Take your time :-) Yes, I think I get what you mean. Regarding My Name, I yet have to watch it.
For me actually when I read the plot of My Name and Vincenzo, even those two got high ratings everywhere, I kind of put those on a low prioritiy in my plan-to-watch list. And that is exactly because I'm like: So it's your usual revenge thing ? Or oh, it's your usual Mafia setting ? ...and it's just not as appealing (like 'been there done that' as may be because I'm European and used to it) as e.g. something like Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha where I'm curious about that small village korean style romance thingy. But of course that might be just me and the show can be still very good. On the other hand I still would say with the classic crime themed drama/movie done in Korea I was never disappointed so far, as there's a special unique vibe there.
It's just that, when there's too much money involved, the big movie makers, like Netflix, or especially the US industry seem to play "safe" very often, just thinking of the multiple season approach or those endless Marvel/DC. Let's hope that kind of thinking doesn't sneak in too much...I would guess if the budget for the kdrama's is small the risks are smaller anyway. We all know what they can pull of with just a bunch of good actors and plot, no need to to waste money of special effects & CGI all the time...
Regarding "Your Name" I think now I should re-watch and pay attention to what you mentioned. I mean when I remember talking to some friends in Japan, they were also totally into Pixar/Disney animation movies and so I would think also writers/directors appreciate those and so you'll have a mutual influence like in many art-forms.
Just sometimes I wonder why some art forms are still very separately. While k-pop is now known all over the planet, I still have a hard time digging into J-rock/J-punkrock ...and there are so may cool bands out there in Japan, especially lots of all-female-bands, so much musical talent...may be just nobody is doing marketing outside Japan as they think somebody sing japanese won't make money outside of the country. Ok, sorry for being a bit off-topic :-)