LouM:
so im actually watching a drama right now where the ML transforms magically into a woman (basically him with make up and long hair) ML doesnt know that he transforms,FL knows both ML and his disquise but doesnt know that it's him.Does it count since ML doesnt know he changes himself?
I'm going to say no, since in this case, I'd be looking for the FL thinking they are two different people, but it would be obvious she can't tell since he would appear as two different sexes.
I'm more looking for a kind of "how did they not realize" or "figure it out sooner" sort of scenario.