[Discussion] I Need Romance

Feb 9, 2012 01:00 am

If I answer that Star, I think I might spoil you too much. Let me ask you a question first... Who do you like better right now? (I can't remember names) her ex boyfriend or her co-worker who likes her?

AnimeStar

Feb 9, 2012 02:48 pm

why? I've already completed the drama...but if you mean it in other way so SPOILER -> her co-worker really disappointed me, I think she did the right thing when she said she couldn't change her identity because I couldn't do it either, I think if the man truly loves you he can give some things up, especially material things as money and not material thing as family status and so on. You've probably seen Me Too, Flower right? That was the perfect man as he's given up everything he has achieved just for his girlfriend. OK back to the co-worker. I think he was in love with her but he didn't truly love her if you know what I mean or I could say he didn't love her enough. Her ex-boyfriend, at first I didn't like him. Well, who would like to have a cheating guy but as I've seen how he was changing with every episode, I think he truly loved her and he really regretted that he's cheated on her. But still I don't know whether I would be able to forgive him, you know I'm only 20 and I don't know how is it to experience a 10-year-long relationship. When I try to look from her point of view, she really loved him for ten long years and I was so moved when I saw how desperate he was to be accepted by her again and how he cared for her and wished her happiness even though he knew she was going to go to another guy. I think that this was a true love so I would probably forgive him as well. It's just my opinion, as I've said I don't have much experience with guys though I was heartbroken once.
What's your opinion on it?

Jeaniessi

Feb 9, 2012 03:02 pm

OH! I didn't realize you finished it and didn't want to say what I thought or I'd spoil you...but reading your post...I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said. Spoiler---> You know...Who can say how much a person can love, forgive and trust until they are in that situation? And your right, even though you haven't experienced it YET!, relationships are very complicated things and the more time you spend with someone the more complicated they can get. I mean, if you think about families and how they are usually together their whole lives: They love each other, disappoint each other, often even hurt each other, annoy the heck out of each other and then forgive and continue to love! It's the same with long time couples/marriages as well. It's not easy to just give up on/kill that partnership over a mistake. It's ...complicated.

So anyway...What I'm trying to say...and very badly...is that I can see why she forgave him in the end. I'm not sure what I would do in the same situation but I wasn't one of those viewers who were staunchly against her taking him back. <------End

AnimeStar

Feb 9, 2012 03:24 pm

Thanks for your opinion, now I don't think that I'm weird anymore LOL. Cause I was thinking about it last night and when I came to my conclusion I've started to question myself whether what I think is right, is really right and so on. I'm just a human so of course I make mistakes but I would like to make less mistakes if possible even though sometimes I can't prevent them. Life is really complicated but if I know beforehand that something is wrong I can try to avoid it. Thanks again for sharing your opinion with me. :)

_Rosie

Jul 22, 2012 11:44 pm

_Rosie

Jul 22, 2012 11:47 pm

Just finished this & I didnt like the ending at all!!! It was terribly disappointing. I felt like the lead girl was totally using the Hotelier to get back at her ex & to make herself feel good ....I don't think she was sincere in her feelings towards him at all as she was itching to get back with the ex at every opportunity. I just don't get it. She doesn't have any pride at all.....For a show ostensibly about strong independent women what a let down the "heroine" was a weak clingy woman ugh I hate people with those qualities in the end I guess she & her boyfriend deserve each other they are both as bad as each other...... :(

sabubu

Jul 22, 2012 11:55 pm

hahah i would definitely agree with the just making herself feel good bit- but idk i was mixed when i saw the ending.. they were together for 10 years it would be a little unrealistic for me if she could just forget him and not want him back ..especially with him pursuing her. and then there was that whole part where she had to change her age and get plastic surgery and lie about her entire existence if she wanted to be with the director- that part was pretty iffy for me. i think they had to put something in there to make the director seem displeasing- like there had to be something wrong with him since he was so perfect :o

cityhunter VIP

Jul 25, 2012 01:17 pm

as entertaining as i found this at the end of it all i really disliked the female lead. she had her moments but all in all she was not at all the woman promised in the synopsis. she was weak childish, selfish and at times down right cruel. at times i was fairly certain she suffered from some sort of mental deficit. "oh but sometimes real people are like that" you say. i dont watch K-drama to see how real people would react. that would be like watch soap operas for the acting. no matter how many times In Young claimed she loved the director i dont think any of us ever bought it. she knew the whole time where she would end back up. it seemed all she really wanted to do was punish Kim Sun Soo, once she was satisfied that she had thoroughly crushed him she went right back with hardly a second glance. she would have done it even w/out the stupid requests from the director's family. not since you're beautiful has my heart bled for a 2nd male lead like this. screw her director, you go find you a better woman.

_Rosie

Jul 25, 2012 01:47 pm

cityhunter83 wrote: as entertaining as i found this at the end of it all i really disliked the female lead. she had her moments but all in all she was not at all the woman promised in the synopsis. she was weak childish, selfish and at times down right cruel. at times i was fairly certain she suffered from some sort of mental deficit. "oh but sometimes real people are like that" you say. i dont watch K-drama to see how real people would react. that would be like watch soap operas for the acting.

no matter how many times In Young claimed she loved the director i dont think any of us ever bought it. she knew the whole time where she would end back up. it seemed all she really wanted to do was punish Kim Sun Soo, once she was satisfied that she had thoroughly crushed him she went right back with hardly a second glance. she would have done it even w/out the stupid requests from the director's family.

not since you're beautiful has my heart bled for a 2nd male lead like this. screw her director, you go find you a better woman.

Here ! Here !

I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said CH.