Like, for example I watched rom not too long ago about a FL who had a crush on her high-school sweetheart, and they became a couple for a while a few years later, but he hit her due to a trauma caused by his old girlfriend leaving him for some rich dude, and the FL who basically had a crush on him for 10+ years was like you hit me, so we're over. Not once, did she consider looking for psychological help or whatever... and just broke up and moved on to the next guy who was the ML.... Like... so love is only that much... no wonder the her high-school sweetheart has a trauma.
Any chinese roms where the leads are more realistic?