The ideal drama would have morally grey characters as the main characters, but I am open to all. I enjoy stories that don't neatly fit into black-and-white narratives. I am especially interested in stories that explore the complexities of human nature, motivations, and decisions. Ideal these characters are flawed and struggle with moral dilemmas and are faced with difficult choices and have to grapple with the consequences of their decisions. I am looking for shows that challenge the ideas of right and wrong. I also want the story to be complex and unpredictable. I also enjoy dramas with realistic and complicated plots that keep me guessing until the end. 

Any suggestions would be appreciated.   

I have recently watched the following:

  • Tengoku to Jigoku: Psychona Futari (2021)
  • Mystery to Iunakare (2022)
  • Shinai naru Boku e Satsui wo Komete (2022)
  • Till the End of the Moon (2023)
  • Good Bye, My Princess (2019)
  • Kuzu no Honkai (2017)

I have also watched.

  • The King's Woman (2017)
  • Empress Ki (2013)
  • White Christmas (2011)
  • Last Friends (2008)
  • Strangers from Hell (2019)
  • Lover or Stranger (2021)

 

 emeraldarrows:

Twisted Fate of Love has the most morally gray/anti-hero ML I've ever seen in a drama.

Also...

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Thank you so much for the list. I've only seen The Romance of Tiger and Rose (2020), on your list, and I love it. I'm still hoping for season 2. I'm looking forward to watching the other one on your list.  Thanks again for the recommendation!

Maybe:

  • Trolley
  • My Ahjusshi
  • Hirugao / Love Affairs in the Afternoon
  • Misty

 Czakhareina:

Maybe:

  • Trolley
  • My Ahjusshi
  • Hirugao / Love Affairs in the Afternoon
  • Misty

Thanks, I will check these out. 

 Tova:

Mother 

My Name

Innocent Man

That Winter the Wind Blows

Thank You

Lie After Lie

Mask

The One and Only

Crazy Love

Secret

I watched Lie After Lie, which I really enjoyed watching. Despite trying multiple times, I just couldn't get past episode one of Secret. I will try watching Secret again and check those other titles. Thanks for your suggestions.

Main grey characters and LOTS  of anguish  (at least at some point) over moral choices:

Warrier Baek Dong Soo - SML ( one of  two male leads)

My Country:The New Age - SML (one of two male leads), also 3ML is very grey character and struggles a little too

Six Flying Dragons - ML, SML, other characters and as for the moral struggles - pretty much all mains at some point

The Untamed - ML, SML, 3ML, pretty much all characters are in various shades of grey, some struggle more some less but all face concequences

These above are very much dramas about difficult choices

Also:

Alchemy of Souls - FL(season1), ML (season2), 3ML (both seasons - a bit comedic though) other characters,  even if not "grey" struggle witch moral choices too

Ashes of Love - SML

Bloody Romance - all main  characters, especially SML

The Wolf - ML, SFL


Morally grey mains  that go trough SOME struggle over their choices

Word of Honor  - both MLs (mostly with past choices)

The Bridal Mask - both ML (esp at the beginning) and SML go trough some struggle

Nokdu Flower -SML at some points , ML at the beggining

Nirvana in Fire - ML

Rise of the Phoenixes - ML

Princess's Man - ML, 3ML, some secondary characters

I haven't finished watchig but ML in The Royal Nirvana struggles a lot and it seems that Three With Deep Roots has morally grey characters who struggle with their choices too.

  • kinnporsche (most of the characters, apart from the younger brother of one of the ML's)
  • till the end of the moon (ML makes a massacre in FL's village at the beginning)
  • sky castle

Secret  no one is sinless

He Is Psychometric  betrays the most trusted

I second these recommendations: 

And add: 

  • Duel (the entire theme of the drama is of grey shades) 
  • Bad Guys (criminals solving a crime, I think you might like it) 
  • Flower of Evil (intense and suspenseful thriller, great character writing, can't say much more cause it would be a spoiler, but it does fit your search) 
  • Love Between Fairy and Devil (ML struggles a lot, is torn between hate/getting revenge and developing feelings he never thought being possible) 
  • Mad Dog (ML + SML are troubled characters and more characters have shady personalities) 
  • The Long Ballad (FL wants revenge and pursues it, until she learns her decision comes with consequences) 
  • The Witch's Diner (every granted wish requires a payment/sacrifice)

I'm gonna give these scores based off how much the show is focused on the internal struggles  or personal growth of the character on a scale of 1-10

Flower of Evil - 5 - This is really more of a suspense/mystery but people love it and there is moral struggle.  the positive of this one is that it is very deep and intense psychology going on with that ML that has everything to do with an inner struggle between good and evil.

Cheese in the Trap - 10 - The quintessential morally gray ML.  Seriously, this is like the classic prototype for morally ambiguous.  However, he's not battling in himself between good and evil, but rather more nuanced issues of 'right' and 'wrong'.  He is a 'good' character.  He's just a character that his exact level of 'goodness' is up for debate.  The entire show revolves around this inner struggle and his challenge to overcome himself and grow.

Well-intended Love - 5 - (if you can handle the fury of the bad quality, the ML is pretty spicy.) The show is less focused on his moral struggles, and he is a pretty recalcitrant ML, but the struggles become real to him as he realizes the FL isn't liking his choices and behavior.

The Rose - 8 - (one of the awesomest most messed up shows I've ever watched, probably my all-time fave drama or at least tied for first)  Several main characters go through moral struggles here and the show is mainly focused on how they have to grow to make it through, even though they are really resistant to change.

A Korean Odyssey - 6 - This is a less "heavy" show in the psychological department.  But seeing as how the ML wants to literally eat the FL when they meet, I'd say he goes through a lot to get to the point where he's gaga over her and would do anything for her.

Til the End of the Moon - 10 - This entire show is about 'the battle within' between good and evil and right and wrong.  It's not psychologically heavy-duty, but neither is it light by any means.

That Winter The Wind Blows - 7 - ML starts out trying to play a long con on a blind FL.  Then he gets himself ensnarled in her life to the point where he has to make hard choices about how to proceed.  He is so accustomed to being morally gray that his love for the FL pretty much shreds him internally.

Jealousy Incarnate - 6 - ML starts out as a real jackass and has to develop a whole other side to himself in order to cope with a new circumstance.  He's not exactly 'morally gray' in the classic sense, though.  However, the show takes his struggles seriously.

Jotei - 7 - Nearly every character in this show has some shade of moral ambiguity.  The ML and FL are both morally gray and must learn to grow as people.  However they didn't go as hard on the 'deep psychology' as they could have, and their character development is pretty predictable.

Love Between Fairy and Devil - 7 - The entire drama is centered around the moral ambiguity of the ML, however it was a cheesy wuxia that doesn't really cut right down to the psychological core of things.  I did like it a lot though.

My Heart Twinkle Twinkle - 10 - Dear god  "the chicken man", as I call this guy, was the most messed up morally mixed up ML I've ever seen, and he does NOT want to change, but he HAS to.  Through the show, the pressure on him slowly begins to crush him, and at the end... he grows.  But he takes a long hard road getting there.  In this sense, the ML remains kind of static through a lot of the show, his growth doesn't really progress AS the show progresses.  What you see is the buildup that leads to the changes he has to make, and how that affects him.

The Smile Has Left Your Eyes & Sora Kara Furu Ichioku no Hoshi - 6 & 7 respectively - The Japanese version has a lot more of the psychology and shows a lot more of the growth and struggle of the ML, but they are both good.

Tempted - 6 - A korean remake of Dangerous Liasons but only with rich kids.  Although the plot is supposed to classically be about a personal breakdown of an ML having a moral crisis of character, this version is very unsophisticated.

This is the drama that always pops into my head when I think of a morally gray main character. 

Tokyo Joshi Zukan (2016)