Love to Hate You could fit, the FL is very headstrong, competent, solves all her own problems and some of the ML's too haha.
In Cunning Single Lady the FL is strong-willed and assertive and uses that against the ML at first, he comes to love it though.
In Mr. Queen of course the FL (ML?) is super assertive and shocks everyone all the time.
The King's Affection: FL is the king (in disguise), cold and assertive and strong. ML is her tutor but he finds her ordering him around adorable and falls for her
Who Rules the World: the FL is a folk hero, a strong fighter who solves her own problems, the ML loves that about her
