Since you have My Way as one of your faves, I suggest you start w/:
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Battle of Changsha --- excellent
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The Disguiser ---
Chinese are best at Historicals and these are very good:
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Scarlet Heart / Bu Bu Jing Xin --- Intrigue w/ clever female
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Sound of the Desert --- romance-centric
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Nirvana In Fire --- very little romance ... amazing
Chinese also known for Wuxia:
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Prince of Lan Ling ---
There is also fantasy genre, now very popular, but I won't recommend any.
If you do NOT want cheesy non-realistic romances, stay away from the very popular:
Love O2O... Boss & Me .... My Amazing Boyfriend .... Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms / Eternal Love