The female lead does something terrible to him like abandons him for another man and then feels really guilty about it. The male lead wants nothing to do with her because of it. She tries to stay friends with him. Eventually she tries to reconcile with him and gets back together with him.

I'd say "Cunning Single Lady" fits that pretty well, except she doesn't leave him for another man. She leaves him for other reasons/circumstances. However the male lead is hurt and doesn't want anything to do with her. When she attempts to reconcile, he is adamant in keeping her away. But of course, as the story de elope the audience and the main male lead finds out why she left and they do reconcile.