I want male lead to be cold-ish or uninterested in having relationship or playboy or arrogant or bad boy or anything where he isn't lovely dovely and sweet. 

He ends up really loving/falling hard the main girl and not knowing how to handle/channel his feelings. Love watching these heroes who never really cared about anyone come to lose control because of the female lead and are now at a loss -sort of getting their comeuppance. 

The female lead  doesn't really care a wuff about him and is not interested in him. She don't have any feelings for him (due to she liking the second male lead or not) and isn't thinking or drooling about him.  She speaks her mind and stands up for herself and isn't a pushover or doormat.

{Note: He needs to fall first}

no female lead chasing guy.

He continuously screw up in order to wins her heart. -it would be sweet to watch him change and became a better person due to female lead.  This premise makes for great tension/emotional outbursts btw leads! 

Sorry for long description but really needed to watch something like this.

Open to any country.

E.g

Boys over flower

Secreg garden

1% of something 

The greatest love

Love In Time~ 240 yr old cold cruel vampire halfbreed meets a judo champion girl hate each other but feelings begin....

Kiss Me~ New "hot student" really mean and rude catches the attention of popular girl craziness ensues 

Les Interpretes~ Nasty boss new girl lots of challenges things begin to form

The Four 2015~ Runaway concubine wanted the famous four find her the leader "Cold Blood" is really downright mean to her but he melts lol

hope it helps

What's Wrong With Secretary Kim – Just finished airing, sounds pretty much spot on based on what you're looking for. Arrogant, narcissistic company vice-president who works rather than dates is hit with a conundrum after his secretary of nine years decides she wants to quit to find her own dream (and potentially get married, settle down). His solution: marry her to stop her from leaving. 

Moon Lovers: Scarlet Heart Ryeo – Typical cold on the outside, warm on the inside guy falls (hard) for the main female lead and is awkward about expressing it, set in Goryeo times. Lots of court drama, violence, etc. though.

Neung Nai Suang - they are childhood enemies, he is the only son of a wealthy noble while she is the adopted daughter of her aunt after her parents dies. Her only memories of him is the constant teasing and bullying, during family get-togethers and playdates. He comes back from his study abroad as the most sought after bachelor in town, but she is the only woman who is immune to his charms due to childhood experience. Plus He is more arrogant now than ever.

Whats wrong with Secretary Kim - he is the most arrogant boss ever, but when his perfect secretary gives him notice that she will resign, he will do everything in his arrogant and perfect way to keep her by his side.

Monstar - he is a popular idol while she is sheep girl who just came feom the mountains of Alps. He is used to have girls giggling and ogling her not the sheep girl transfer student who glares at her and doesnt know he is an idol. How dare she?!?

Five Enough - the story of Sangmin and Yeontae, who were not really the main couple but definitely the one to really watch. Sangmin is an upcoming golf star who Yeontae accidentally hitches a ride with due to her drunken heartbroken state. As luck and fate would have it, the two will cross paths multiple times and against his better and arrogant judgement that he is far way better than her, and way beneath him in stature and beauty, he falls for her. But Yeontae, the ever innocent and loyal girl who just got her heart broken cant understand and is actually weirded out by his declarations of liking her.  

Autumn Concerto - as the son of the major stock holder of the university, he was the king of campus. Everyone wanted to be like him, everyone wanted to be with him, and he can make bets regarding the bento girl who happens to be the FL. But as he tries to win the bet, so does he learn more about the hirl and slowly fall for her, because despite being somewhat quiet and weak, she has the inner strength to defy him and make him strive to be a better man.

Khun Chai Puttipat -  Chai pat is only interested in medicine and surgery. Love and women is a waste of time and energy.  Work and family (his brothers) is the one thing he finds time, love and passion for, which his brothers are worried about due cause he might just be caught in the family promise for arrange marriage with the taewaproms . But  when the currently crowned Miss Thailand falls under his care due to accidents after accidents, he cant help but be pulled in into her flight and issues. 


Others:

  • Todome no Kiss
  • Noble My Love
  • A girl and three sweethearts
  • falling for Innocence
  • shining inheritance
  • My golden Life

The Greatest Love

dragon day you are dead [2017]

the male lead bullies the female lead and end ups falling for her