that fits many of the Thai lakorns, but if you don't mind Turkish ones, at the moment am watching Emanet (Legacy), the guy doesn't trust women and he did go to some extremes even with the main girl (no rape or anything like that), but like locking her up in a boiler room with a savage dog, telling his goons to hang her with chains and dunk her in the sea, to make her give up.
Again a Turkish drama called Hercai, he married her in a fake marriage as revenge against his family and left her alone in the middle of nowhere, family vs family, and he's really possessive and aggressive towards her. Both dramas I mentioned involve the families with guns.
Sealed with a Kiss
Le Jun Kai
The King's Woman
Good Bye, My Princess
Cruel Romance (not as bad)
Siege in Fog (not as bad)