I went through the Chinese Dramalist you linked here.. But those are not my taste at all.
Well MOON lovers is my all time favorite too and
about CHEESE IN THE TRAP , it's my another favorite because I really understood the male lead. Yes he gets back at those who hurt him but he is empathetic and tries to include helpless people in his circle and was really nice towards her once he started loving her. He doesn't talk about the past because if he gets hurt he resolves it in his own way, but the path he takes may not be ideal. He just makes sure that others get what they deserves for their own wrongful actions.
And i kind of HATE the SECOND MALE LEAD because he doesn't care about other's emotions or what mental trauma others have to go through because of his hurtful words and he take others for granted. Cheese in the trap was a whole difference experience for me as far as Korean dramas are concerned.