estefani220:
Well, I mean I don't know.
There are times when I have dreamt about getting back with an ex (insert vomit), when I am happily with my husband of 20 years. :)
Maybe her subconscious pushes her towards him as the 'best' choice, since he is not connected to her past bad decisions and events...
Just trying to think outside the box.
I am not against FL for using her right to decide, who she wana be with cuz at the end of the day "her life, her right" but that doesn't mean ML have to suffer the consequences of her decision. I think you should chase woman, when she is single but once she makes a decision, you have to accept it and move on. Its possible she will turn around and try to be with you, moment something bad happens in a relationship but still.....you were her back door and secondary option.
You will not have her full loyalty, love and affection as backup.....so in these situations its always best to let her decide for herself and then move on and never look back. There are plenty of woman in world....you will find someone better than her. ...in simple words never take her back. She made her bed, now lie in it.