Love begins with self-deception and ends with deceiving others

The so-called match made in heaven is nothing but a beautiful mask worn to show outsiders. As for how ugly and disgusting the person under the mask is, they know it but don't understand it. Marriage has long been dull and boring, and we are tired of each other, but under the bondage of interests, we will be the best actors, performing the drama that outsiders love to watch the most to please the audience. Love started casually.

On the 10th day of getting along, he looked up and saw her, and they looked at each other. He said, "Don't do it, marry me." They didn't speak for the first 9 days. She dared to love, hate, and venture out. She dared to cut off the mother-daughter relationship with her mother who was addicted to gambling, and dared to donate all the money she earned. She dared to fight from the bottom to the Hall of Fame in a foreign country.

This time, she dared to gamble on marriage. If she was really happy after marriage, it would be a romantic flash marriage. If not, she would use her career as a horse, galloping thousands of miles, shining and beautiful alone. You can cheat as you please, just don't let me see you having an affair, because it's not very harmful, but extremely insulting. In fact, she knew her husband had an affair with a woman who called her sister, and she turned a blind eye. It's not magnanimity, but she has more important things to do, and adults rely on themselves.

There is no love in the rich family, only interests, and she has seen through this. The reason why she was not kicked out of the house and the Yingying and Yanyan did not enter the house is that her value crushed everything. Her existence is to make the husband's family think about it.

There is a price to touch her, and it may not be the kind that can be borne, so don't act on impulse. So even if she is caught in bed, she can turn around gracefully and treat it as an accidental interruption: You still have the mood to continue, I can wait outside for you to finish, you have used my husband, and he and I still have tasks and dramas to perform. The important thing is that neither of us should lose our mood.

Although you took advantage of every opportunity, your time management was still not strict enough, which embarrassed me on the spot. Fortunately, I have seen big scenes and am not surprised. However, after this incident, you should be more careful. It seemed that she had rehearsed such encounters in her mind. If you often walk by the river, you will get your shoes wet. Seeing his disapproval, the husband instantly lost the desire to seek pleasure. In order to maintain self-affirmation, he needed to get close, fresh, visible, and close love from a person. He deceived himself in the regret of not being fulfilled, and tortured himself in unspeakable lies. His wife was too good and always made him unable to reach her. There was a distance between them.

The one who wanted to get close could not step down, and the one who wanted to chase was too strong to disdain. He indulged his desires, hoping to arouse a little anger and love from his wife, but he didn't know that his wife had already reconciled with her inner love and fragility, fought her way out of the wounds, and placed her feelings in a wider world. In this regard, the husband had long been unable to keep up with her. Sometimes, the best way to make others care about you, or think less like a victim, is to care less about them.

Although this road is bloody, if the goal is clear and firm, marriage is not necessarily a shackle. Whoever suffers will change, whoever can endure the pain and transcend the pain will be a bystander, and only use the advantages of a clean marriage to pave the way for their future. Even if the mother-in-law is so angry that she wants to say, "You still don't divorce after all this, you are so heartless", it can't disrupt her rhythm. Is she heartless?

No matter how wonderful the outside world is, she just longs for a lamp to protect her. Is she heartless? If she doesn't get the result she wants, she will stick to it no matter what. But I still want to say that the most reasonable way is not to force yourself.

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