finally

I am so happy that the marriage obsessed and engineering guy couple are breaking up. its obvious that they gonna get back together in later episode, but honestly that relationship was such a fat mess from the beginning. it was flying bright red flags all the way from the start and throughout its entire existence. I cant find one cute thing in their relationship, all their "cute" scenes felt like they were fleeting moments of happiness that were placed so perfectly so it would hide their issues. like for example the whole couch shit, she literally never apologised for that, her apology was just to cry and say "I wanted to get proposed to", does that really make it any better. they had a whole "cute" scene where he was coaxing her or what not, but really why is that his job, he literally didn't even get an apology he just gave into her hurt and pushed aside his. they whole issue was she was the main character and he was her doll. the whole I shaped him into boyfriend material, now to shape him into husband material, seriously what part of that was ok, that what I mean, just cos she had a smile on her face when she said it, dont mean it cute relationship things. it just hiding a bunch of unsolved shit. its so unbeleivably sexist their relationship, it drives me insane. they painted it to be the typical"woman and men dont speak the same lnauge problem" and its just so disgusting. that genre of "love" really deserves a break up. I think she's the only character that irritates me in this whole drama. like im not saying her dreams are less important or nothing, but she dont let anyone think that way so that's not even the issue, its the fact that she's so selfish and no one called her out on it till now.

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update: we got 2 characters we dont like now

when they revealed the suicide plot i was like, damn u pathetic, THEN she was like any method is ok as long as i get what i want. girl she EVIL. theres that. and our ML. bro is not it. for the whole entirety of exposing the cheating method story line i was so bloody uncomfortable and at times angry with his character. called her stupid. stopped from reacting how she wanted to. suggesting that it wasn't the "right" way. even if he wanted to give her a bigger revenge THAT IS SOMETHING A BESTIE OF 10 YEARS OF SOEMTHING HAS THE RIGHT TO DO being like "girl dont yell at him now we will plan his bloody funeral" and not a damn COWORKER or someone with a one side crush. and honestly event that bestie seeing the anger and tears in her eyes probably would have bloody said yeah nah lets just cause they riot right now. not letting her doing it her way by telling her that its "messy" (even tho he said he "wanted to give HER the chance to confront him first"(ironic)) is just bloody trying to be controlling. cos no normal person just sees those tears and anger in them eyes and says yeah no we have to do it MY way where you date me as a revenge. LIKE GIRL WHAT? he reminds me of people who have all these fantasises about their crush but they don't stop to consider or actually even accept that their crush might be a human being with opinions and thoughts that can be different to and beyond what they imagine/fantasise. i legit think man is just trying to get things to go his way without a flying shit about her emotions. controlling or just controlling cos he mad, it dont matter. he just made me way too uncomfy. to the point where i started to think it was better if she found out on her own and suffered for longer. because his way....just seems like a way to manipulate someone who is hurting into living according to ur "ideal methods" of revenge and very "COINCIDENTALLY" those ideal methods include dating you. ik the last sentence doesnt make sense but the more i write the more i realise how creepy the ML is.

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what in the harassment?

1. You dont touch someone elses lips like that. ESPECIALLY not ur coworker. as someone on dramacool said "That last lipstick scene is inappropriate in so many levels. And it is creepy. And wrong. How can you touch someone's -anyones- lip? This is wrong, harrassement, and something that must be avoided unless you are a couple."2. The ML's reaction to dealing with his crush being cheated on infuriated me??????? like i get being mad that someones but how can that madness be so overflowing that it also transfers into u be a shitty prick to her calling her stupid and treating her like she is stupid because she's unbeknowest? As someone else from dramacool said (they said it way better than me and literally took the words out of my mouth but i just wanna reread it) "I don't really have a problem with the cliché setting, but Ro Won's character is a bit much. From what I understand he feels both angry that she's being used by her boyfriend and annoyed at her for being happy and unaware of her lover's trickery. It's not that I do not understand the possibility of feeling both of these emotions at the same time but nonetheless he seems to forget that he has no right to act the way that he does. Being cheated on and or lied to by your partner doesn't make you stupid, that's one. Two, her being cheated on doesn't magically mean that she would be interested in you... Also, don't touch people without their permission and give people their personal space. Though I don't have much hope for this I pray that they tackle his attitude problem and don't just add peach blossoms and some nice bgm and label it 'the power of love' T.T ."anyways. i dont like his character one bit. it looks like a high school typical bad boy ML who knows no basic decency or understands basic human feelings but his own. but uk high school dramas are meant to be like that so they can show the "development" or whatever of the bad boy ML into a decent character. But since this ain't a high school drama and he a grown as man. My initial EP1 impression of him is that he gives me bad bad vibes. psychopathic vibes? anger-induced psychopath vibes? who knows its just not good. oh but the creep vibes are 100% the lipstick scene was disgusting.

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WHO ARE YOU EVEN???

bro this Na Hae Ri character omgggggggg. Like i can look past her saying "hes not worth you feeling guilty over cos he was gonna die anyway" as just her way of trying to make the guy feel better about his guilt. Like you know when u say sumn without thinking fully but it just comes out cos u wanna make the other person feel better. BUT LIKE LITERALLY NAHHHH she literally has the hot case of rich people arrogance. she like where are you gonna go? u dont even have a house u been living off me? LIKE EXCUSE ME. EVEN IF u consider it a 걱정으로 했는 소리 , the fact that it happened TWICE. just shows she has absolutly no consideration for her partners thoughts. ITS LITERALLY EVERY MAIN RICH GUY CHARACTER WHO THINKS MONEY GONNA SOLVE EVERY ONE OF HIS GIRLS PROBLEMS AND DOESNT THINK THAT MINDSET IS BAD. cos why? oh its just money? its not that big of a deal to think about socioeconomic factors when its just petty money (EYE ROLLLLLL). LIKE BOI U GOTTA CONSIDER THE OTHER PERSONS FEELINGS ITS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY U IDIOTTTTTTT. anyways although this girl may think its just money she fails to see her partners feelings, which is her actual downfall. the fact that shes selfish literally they shouldnt be together. If shes unable to consider his feelings, LITERALLY U SHOULDNT BE TOGEHTERRRRRR. 헤어져! 당장!!!!!!!!

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