Sometimes It's Best to Let It Go

I found this drama meaningful and deep. I can understand the fact that this is not everyone's cup of tea but for me it was perfect. I loved every second of it, I loved the fact that everything was happening slow and so many quotes made me think of my life that was it worth it to live like this or should I change my way of living.
When this drama started I also found love and when their relationship ended mine also ended, so I found so many similarites with my life. The fact that we can talk about so many things but we just can't because just because we talk doesn't mean the ending can change.
This drama shows sometimes we just try so much to hold on but there are something we need to let it go.
I know that it can be boring for many people because every subject in the series is handled in a very deep and mature way. But if you want to watch a slow-breathed, deep series where you can make sense of every word, I think you should take a look.
When a person feels too much, after a while he starts not being able to feel anything or starts talking with his eyes, not reflecting what he feels.
The pain of the protagonists was evident in their eyes, they could only show many things with their eyes without expressing them with words. I think that was very impressive. I think the depth of their love and the value they gave to each other was very beautiful.
People are so accustomed to making sacrifices for someone and giving up on themselves that it may seem selfish to us to see someone living for themselves. However, the normal thing is to be able to live for ourselves and not give up on ourselves for someone else.
Someone always enters and leaves our lives, this cycle will always be like this, the important thing is to take care of ourselves.
Even when we lose ourselves, we have the courage to find ourselves again.
We think that we have lost our love when the person we love leaves our lives, but in fact, love is a feeling that is inside us, so it is still inside us. This feeling is not just about the other party, so we can feel it without it.
I hope this drama will be a hope for people to have the courage to be themselves.

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The Difference Between Y and Z

Actually, I think they basically tried to explain the difference between the Y and Z generations which is not that clear because we don't really know their ages but we can differenciate in their actions as much as we can.
The way they explained the drama was confusing and illogical. There were a lot of inconsistent actions and it was really sad that they judged people who think and prefer marriage, serious relationship, monogamy as closed minded.
While trying to break stereotypes in the series, I couldn't understand why they set up new stereotypes, that didn't make any sense to me.
There were explicit scenes at unnecessary moments, it was annoying that no one cared about anything and many toxic behaviors were called normal.
At the end of the series, I think they couldn't connect the subject and gave a very unlinked message to the drama, at least that is what I'm thinking.
It didn't add anything to me, it was a complete disappointment.

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''Remembering and forgiving my past self. Hello to me.''

I loved the drama because it can directly show that if we don't embrace ourselves and our past we won't be happy in our present time and this will affect our future.
If you are unhappy because you did something that can hurt you in the past this drama will make you different sides of the story. You can see that we all have childish sides but at the same time, we all are mature enough to move on.
I loved the drama even though there wasn't too much romance it was understandable because it is about you and your past self.
This drama made me see that I am worthy and even though there is something I did wrong I can change those, think about it if I hurt someone at least I can say sorry to them.
Please look at your past and find your faults and try to change them. If you can't change it just understand why did you do that and forgive yourself.
If you don't forgive yourself, they can't forgive you either.
I loved the drama because it is realistic, there are some questions that made me think a lot but life is full of questions and you can't always find the answers so just live your life fully even there are some paths that will hurt you, you will see happiest days too.
Love yourself because you are worth it.

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Without prejudice, everything is understandable and realistic.

There are so many people who has an open relationship or no relationship at all. Some people choose to hang out and nothing more. Because relationship are hard to handle and that give you so many responsibility and so many people don't want that. And this is not something wrong. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't make you right, having a open relationship/just hanging out doesn't make you wrong.
If you consider the actors' positions and perspectives on life, not your own life while watching the series, I'm sure you will be able to look at them without prejudice and understand them.
If you look at it individually or internalize the subject, it will be difficult for you to understand. Everyone has different opinion about love and it doesn't make anyone wrong.
Thank you.
(Normally I don't rewatch dramas that much that is why I gave it 5.)

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