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Watashi to Otto to Otto no Kareshi japanese drama review
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Watashi to Otto to Otto no Kareshi
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by Aria
Aug 4, 2024
10 of 10 episodes seen
Completed
Overall 1.0
Story 2.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 2.5
Rewatch Value 1.0
This review may contain spoilers

"You can't like two people at the same time."

I stick with that phrase and what I'm going to say is very controversial but it's my perspective ok ?

Yuki is probably the worst character along with Ina. He honestly didn't have the balls to figure anything out, I don't even think he's gay, I think he's bisexual. But he is such an idiot that he doesn't want to acknowledge that he can love two people of the same sex and the opposite sex.

He really was a son of a bitch for having relations with another man THE OWN HOUSE WHICH HIS WIFE LIVED IN. You know what a big shock it must have been for Misaki to see that her husband was having sex in her house with another man? Go to a motel, for God's sake!

Ida is a complete disaster. I mean I'm not really in favor of polyamorous relationships or open relationships, but if both parties are okay with that that's fine. Ida is bisexual, I'm 100% sure, but he interferes in a relationship and selfishly wants Misaki to forcefully accept that this is "normal" when for Misaki what was normal was not sharing her partner with another person.

In the end I feel like Misaki was forced to accept that reality. It's not that she agreed, but somehow Yuki and Ida forced her to accept what she was not (there is the point that you cannot force your partner or your wife to accept that you want to have a polyamorous relationship or a relationship open because only YOU LIKE IT).

If it had been Misaki, I would have said "ok, do what you want with your life but don't want to change my essence. I would like not to see you in another life because not only do you want you to change my thoughts, but you also cheated on me. Goodbye". Honestly, it hurt me to see Misaki a lot and I think she was the one who lost the most out of all this.

Yuki and Ida were the ones who had a happy ending since they could fuck in the same house where Misaki was without any problem because, what does her feelings matter? True?
They two sons of bitches. I think whoever did this didn't even do enough research on the fact that you know, life is not black or white, there are nuances and bisexuality comes into those nuances and didn't do enough research on what it is." have prior consent before starting a polyamorous or open relationship."

I'm not being homophobic, I honestly don't give a shit if Yuki was gay or Ida was gay. What fucked me up was what they did with Misaki, and that they have the balls that they hang as ornaments.

I honestly do not agree with you marrying a person without first warning them that you are bisexual or wanting to cover up your homosexuality with an innocent woman who does love you.

The performances are the only thing I save because Furukawa was really the first time he made me so angry and I wanted to break his balls (and I love him) just like Ida. And give Misaki a slap to say "you know you don't have to change your essence or what you think to make two bastards happy. Live a happy life, with a man who really has his balls in place and get out of there."

I honestly don't plan to see this thing again. She made me so angry that I feel the need to punch out some of the anger I have.

PS: why did I say that I liked that phrase? Because I honestly don't think you can love two people at the same time. What you can feel is love for another person and sexually engaging another. But not loving two people at the same time and with the same intensity.

Side note: I'm not one to judge other people's sex lives. I think that as a monogamous person, it is difficult for me to understand these issues, but I try to understand it because well, as I said before, if it is really agreed upon by both parties it is fine and they can do what they want with their life.

The problem begins when you deceive that person and somehow try to convince the other person to accept your rules of the game.

Many people give it high marks because they think it is somehow a self-discovered self. But I ask, at what cost? At the cost of hurting a woman who loves you only for your own selfishness? Someone has put themselves in Misaki's shoes I think not, because all I read are positive comments about Yuki and Ida but Misaki She doesn't It matters, right?

I even remember that on Yuki and Misaki's anniversary, he made her believe that having sex wasn't important. But there you are going to kiss and grope another man in the house you share together. Yuki is quite manipulative and plays the victim while Ida intrudes into a house that is not him to do whatever he wants and try to convince Misaki and Yuki not to divorce because the three of them can live happily together, making her feel guilty. Misaki that him not wanting to share your husband with another person is wrong. This guy is really crazy, he is manipulative and only thinks about himself, just like Yuki.

While Misaki only finds herself worrying about those two bastards and asking for forgiveness for what she really feels.

Honestly, if this happened in real life, all three of them would be unhappy, although probably Misaki more so. And it would end up being a disaster. Because what starts badly, ends badly.
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