Spoiled and arrogant female leads are one of my fave types of characters, especially because they involve a lot of character development that makes you think that not all people can be nice at first you just need to guide them. Well, the fl did her part in improving herself and apologizing for all her mistakes that involved ruining the relationship of ml and second female lead. The arrogant female lead has now softened up and becomes aware of other people's feelings.

BUT the ml has definitely disappointed me during the last few episodes, imagine your own husband ALWAYS LIKE ALWAYS going to another woman to save her and would prioritize her at all times and saying I'm just there as a friend, even if the fl doesn't comfortable about it, only the densest person in the world would do that and that is our ml. AND the ml would ALWAYS put the second lead's words over our fl believing what the second female lead said with no evidence at all, like have you not noticed that the fl is actually a better person that she was before? I think she had already established that with her trying her best to better herself. (I did a lot of skipping, because it was too much, the last few episodes had these scenes of the ml just being there for the second female lead and always leaving our fl).

Also, fl's family kind of pissed me of when they would always tell the fl to forgive the ml so easily, are we just going to ignore that the ml went to another woman?

I don't particularly hate indecisiveness in characters because it would soon get resolved, but in this drama the indecisiveness in the ml really had to come out on the last few episodes wherein the fl and ml are now officially together as they know they're inlove with each other. I didn't see any improvement in our ml either, they mostly just glossed over it and then just ended it there.

I think this gives me a lesson to myself that being nice to everyone to the extent of leaving someone else (a friend, family, and especially a lover) to attend to another can be detrimental to a relationship, as it causes misunderstandings, and neglect. There's always a limit to what we should do, and boundaries we should make that other people should follow.