My Favourite Romantic Drama ! So Realistic that i watched it many times
This drama is the first drama that i really loved after i started to watch K-dramas. This got me hooked to k-dramas and i started to understand how good K- dramas are. The last part was so romantic . Jung was absolutely fantastic . I never got bored watching it. Son ye was very cute and adorable . the way she adjusted with a boy younger than her was a masterpiece . i felt heart broken and happy ? ? . the only thing i can say bad this drama is that the supporting cast was not at the same level as lead roles.Was this review helpful to you?
I loved both actors playing the lead couple, off the charts chemistry, they really played well their part as 2 people who fall in love and behave like a real couple, such natural scenes they had together, they were so cute and loving with one another (and i’m including all the scenes, all the small gestures, the looks, the hugs, the small smiles, flirting and also the well done kisses and skinship, even tho they did those with excellency i might add, the rest was also very important to me and the hot scenes were a plus!) and the way they shot the scenes were very good too, i felt like i was invading they privacy and peeking through the keyhole the whole time XD was that good!
Kudos for both actors and the crew and directors for making such good scenes.
The story isn’t exactly something new, the typical guy falls the girl kind of thing, even tho this time the guy is a few years younger than the female lead and he is the younger brother of her best friend so if nothing it's a complicated thing from the start because people still have prejudice for those relationships between younger/older people falling in love and being seen together.
I honestly don’t see any kind of problem or issues with it but maybe i’m too open minded about it?
I mean love is love, they are both adults so what's the problem if they want to love each other and be together for life? It's their business and people need to learn how to look to their own noses and not other peoples lives but anyway...
All the problems they encounter with their relationship are caused by others, it makes them waver if what they are doing is right or wrong because people are judging them and pointing fingers.
They tend to be afraid of showing the other person how much they love them and that they matter the most, they feel themselves like a mouse in a trap with no one to help or support them, with no way out or room for happiness unless it's on everybody elses terms.
And that really pissed me off, because people just want to control other peoples lives and it ticks me off in such a way i really tend to be agressive towards people that act so high and mighty all the time, like they know better than everyone else and that only what they say is law.
It really gave me an itch to just slap some sense into them so badly it made me cry so hard.
I could relate so much with this couple that i felt bad for days after watching it, i felt so sad and angry at the same time and i even cried my heart out for them T_T
Don’t get me wrong, i loved this drama and i had already prepared my heart for the bad ending but i was surprised in the end :) Thank the gods!
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Nuna love and the road to freedom
This is the first work for the duo Kim Eun, as a screenwriter, and Ahn Pan-seok, as director (they collaborate again in the production of One Spring Night). It is my final (and perfectly negligible) opinion that they work really well together and should continue to do so (in fact, they should involve Jung Hea-in next time as well).The deeply feminine and insightful writing is capably rendered through soft tones and careful pacing and an overall aura of independent art film. Therefore, I wouldn't recommend this drama to watchers that don't like artsy vibes or slice-of-life plots.
The female protagonist, Jin-ah, is portrayed with such brutal honesty and is so very lifelike that it's almost depressing (Son Ye Jin is the best at playing these kind of characters and she is truly formidable in this role).
Here is a woman held hostage by her family and society's expectations: she is told to compromise and keep the peace. Basically, she is forced to partake in her own abuse only to end up being judged for trying to meet expectations.
Her unconventional love (older woman loves younger, orphan!, man...so shocking!) is the cue to realize the true nature of the cage she is trapped in and to finally have the courage to imagine herself outside of it.
Therefore, a bluntly realistic premise mellows out in an optimistic ending that, to me, feels like advice: Jin-ah frees herself, at last, when she stops trying to make people around her happy and tries to be happy herself (by physically escaping both her job and her family).
The superwoman concept of constant self-sacrifice is, in this drama (and in my personal view), less like a virtue and more like a heavy chain keeping women down. We encounter a number of female characters, each one distinguishable and multifaceted (all the actresses are fabulous), who are trying to find their own solutions to living with this metaphorical chain made of expectations. Sometimes they help each other and sometimes they become the jailor (internalization of mysogyny is strong in all genders).
Male characters, instead, are on the sidelines: fragile and cartoonish. When they are not actively harmful, they are, however, incapable of truly being of support in a struggle they don't fully understand.
I was once again weak and fell in love with Jung Hae-in (his sweet smile and abs keep confusing my feminism and I forget the bitter reality). His character's genuine sentiment and devotion are so innocent, fresh, so naive that it makes you want to simultaneously join him in his artsy illusion and smack him for being so cruel to make you think one can be forgetfully in love. Joon-hee and Jin-ah's romance works well, at first, when it is in its own bubble but can it survive outside, in the harsh world of social costraints?
OST by Yamagata and Carla Bruni. You either love it or come to hate it. I liked it.
Female Empowerement Score 5/5: Jin-ah suffers a lot, but in the end she wins her battle and is able to regain her self despite her molesters, her family's wishes and society's judgment.
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To me it was recognizable in the sense that I am married to a man with whom I have quite an age difference. Although, to my surprise, the age difference was not such a big problem to the parents as expected, I could fully understand the love couple's feelings and struggles. I have been in a similar situation. Being in love, having a joyful time together, but always having to face trouble returning home to my parents. It was really a difficult time and to be honest also something I do not forget. It was a time where you decide to break up, ... not...
So to me this was a special kdrama and I just the right actors to play the couple. I am anyway a fan of Son Ye Jin and the chemistry with Jung Hae In was super, although her chemistry with Kim Hee Ju in Personal Taste was also great.
I love almost all the music. It fits perfectly, although sometimes I had enough of listening to "Stand by your man" over and over again...
Before having registered at MDL, I had my own grading system. These are the grades which I applied and which have contributed to the overall score I gave to this drama.
acting M: 10
acting F: 9.5
couple match: 10
romance: 9
emotions: 10
story line: 9
watch back: yes
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Alot of people are real worried about focusing on the wrong things in this drama. I also think you have to be at a certain point in your life to enjoy this drama. I thi k that particular audience is who the drama is for.
That being said, it has been a hot minute since you've seen a review from me so here goes :
Story: as we age, we don't all fit into a particular cookie cutter life. That is the one depicted here. Pretty Noona is now attracted to what she loves in a man and it happens to be in a younger man. Younger man is mature enough to go back yond cultural, familial and societal pressures to be with her. Will she be able to handle it? Watch and see.
Acting/cast: they did the right thing and found two beautiful people who honestly were attracted to one another and it showed theough their acting. This made the drama unbelievably real and very easy to watch.
Music: as an American, I had enough of "stand by your man" to fill my life. Bad choice. However, the sweet melody song made me cry ecerytime it was played. So, excellent choice.
Rewatch: the drama is light and sweet enough to play at night while sleeping but I doubt I'd sit through the whole thing again.
Overall: 10. This is one of my new favorites. These characters walked right into my heart and I know I will be thinking of them for a very long time. A++
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Something in my heart
It’s official- I have a crush on the lead actor. Omg where do I start. I cried a lot during at least 2 episodes. I got very mad at some of the characters. I refuse REFUSE to watch episode 15. Rewatched this drama a few times and still haven’t watched it to this day. Very much disliked the ending. Laughed a few times. What can I say this drama was a roller coaster of emotions lol. Overall I love the show. I wasn’t crazy about the music. I liked them until they kept repeating the same songs over and over. I think the soundtrack only had 2 songsWas this review helpful to you?
The mundane and trivial conversations of the characters makes the show easy to watch. I did not find any of the episodes tedious because of the palpable chemistry between the leads. It was a relief that the story didn't introduce new characters that will meddle the already complicated lives of Jin Ah and Joon Hee.
On the other hand, I'm beyond impressed with the show's prowess to shed light on the lesser known culture of South Korea such as dating taboos and the ordeal of going through a sexual assault trial. This series is poignant and compelling behind its frivolous romance and toxic in-laws.
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Good, but...
Okay, so. How can I put this gently? The series started great, the characters were presented and you immediately knew what you had to cheer for, right? But then the curse of a couple getting together anytime before the middle of the seriesn comes true and it all goes downhill. What helped me the most here was the fact that I am a huge Son Ye Jin fan and Mr. Jung Hae absolutely delivers. Chemistry and acting were very good, but what messed it up for me was the mom, seriously. That arc and eventually the whole family storyline was beaten into us until an inch of its life. It got tiring. And then, for the last episode, we get a resolution on the last five minutes. Felt rushed and sloppy.This may seem like a bad review, but don't get me wrong: the series is really, really good and captivating. It's not perfect or anything, but very worth the watch at least so you could get to watch the main couples faces.
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Seo Joon Hee was a very likeable character. He acted very mature for his age. The way he showed affection towards Yoon Jin Ah was cute, especially when he would give her hugs lol...i can see why women would fall for him. Yoon Jin Ah was very childish IMO for someone that's in her 30s
I don't know much about Asian culture, but Jin Ah's mom was just over the top.....i didn't like her, she was very judgemental. i was shocked they way she acted towards her supposedly "family members Seo Joon Hee and Seo Kyung Sun"
all in all i really liked this movie
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Where to begin... The good parts. The actors were full of emotions. You could feel the pain or love eith your whole heart. The romance was cute on its special way. The age gap wasn't talked or pointed out that much so that it would steal the light. I think that it was also important that different daily scenes of the society were shown. For example the SH of the main fem leader on the work environment or the status stereotypes inside a family that still exist. On the other side now. The slow burn tired me fr so much. I think that 12 eps would've been enough to complete the whole story. The mother made me yell on my screen many time and pause the ep to stop my rage and understand this aspect of culture.
The couple had many communication probs. They wouldn't discuss the important issues. Like how can they say to each other to be by their side when they don't share their inner thoughts at all. That's absurd! A big WHY was written in my face all the time of how they both acted.
As for the fem leader, she overstepped many times on the personal life of her bf (and behind his back) and just said an "I'm sorry, I made a mistake again it won't happen again". Uhm why would it happen on the first place! Why not think about the feelings of your partner above something.
Considering everything though, this series was both enjoyable and a little tiring. I liked that they made peace with their feelings and ended together. I melted with the cuteness and the chemistry they had. I'm not a person that rewatches series but if I was I wouldn't do it. Once is enough.
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Nevertheless, I liked really much the first half, and I totally agree with some comments above saying that you could skip the second half of the drama, watch the ending and still be satisfied.
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anyways to start it off, this drama needs patience. the love and romance develop through time and struggle. and the drama really gives u the reality of Korean drama love but in a more realistic aspect. as in emphasizing the emotions of trust and worth. family, and friends. work and colleagues. the struggle is talked about. its a slow drama but it really keeps you on your toes when you fall for the two characters.
to summarize the story, two people fall in love. first, they have a large age gap. and second, they meet MANY obstacles in the way.
but there is a lot more meaning behind it than a cliche storyline. the drama really makes you hate some characters especially the mom, and the main girl is not telling her mother ( who is the one who rejects the relationship the most) everything and standing up for what she wants, gets your blood boiling, but at the same time you kind off understand that she is about to turn 40 and is struggling at work and is not bothered to tell her mother everything going on.
the main guy is really boyfriend material, but we also get a deep touch of his family and his own struggles, and the show really emphasizes on what really is the divine meaning of love. how two partners try to understand the meaning of love, and how they try to define it to the members around them.
i would recommend this show to anyone looking for a nice drama to sit and enjoy and give all your time too, because it is slow, and it got this nice love to it. and it needs patience. it can be boring in the first episode because dramas are all about strong impacts and fast reactions, but it gets better when the chemistry starts and the characters get closer. so dont worry.
i didn't? give it a high score for rewatching as it is one of my favorites now and it will take some time for its impact on me to wear off. the music is amazing and really plays a strong role in the show. the story is also really good, but it is different from anything I've watched. the cast is amazing really, especially the dads.
good luck.
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