How To Get The Girl In Dramaland

by addicted2dramas, December 18, 2012

There are countless men out there who are trying to win over the girl that they love. Some are lucky and able to get her, and for others, it takes a lot of hard work. Winning over a girl ain't that easy - even in Dramaland. Only if you have certain qualities, you are entitled to win. If you do not fulfill these criteria, then it all depends on chance or a twist of destiny. Or say, by nothing short of a miracle, if there is a last moment change in the decision of the writer. But I have to say - very few have dared to go along the path less traveled so it's better if you keep these in mind and proceed. All the best!

TIP 1: Be very, very good-looking

By good-looking, I mean smoking hot. Mediocre or average looks are rarely accepted. So if you are confident that you look good enough to these men, congratulations to you! You have fulfilled criteria #1.

TIP 2: Be very rich

The richer you are, the better the chances of the girl falling for you. Guess why? It's because there is 99% probability that she is poor and is in dire need of money. So you can help her out by giving her all that $$$. Put your money to good use: like helping out poor girls or by indirectly trying to win them over

Of course- it's preferred if you have a fancy house and own an enterprise or a company. If you're a professional worker, you would definitely be dressed well and girls have a weakness for men in suits or formal clothes. It would work fine if you're a celebrity too since you'd be both rich and handsome. Or a famous athlete. Basically anything rich or famous works.

TIP 3: Behave rudely and have a fight with the girl during your first meeting

If you end up fighting it will create a lasting impression on her and you automatically become a contender to win her heart. If you first save her life or do any such favour during your first meeting itself, she will be thankful to you and you will be automatically friend-zoned. So, just don't be nice. Unless you are confident that it can lead you to victory (there's always the chance it might).

TIP 4: Have a sad past

Having a sad past works wonders. Because of the tragedy in your life you would be able to get sympathy from the girl. In turn, she will start caring about you and forgive you for the way you behave. That will ignite interest in you. The sadder your past, the better it is for you in the long run because she would want to fix you up. Girls like to fix their guys and make them 'better'. So just remember this. ;-)

Abandonment issues, Mommy issues or Daddy issues- anything works. Or deceased parents or even a dead lover or ex-lover.

TIP 5: Have an ex-lover/ex-girlfriend chasing after you

Girls love competition. Also knowing that you're going to fall for them over the other girl gets her somewhere deep down. She also would long for you more because there is a chance of you not being available. Girls like to go after things they can't get. They love challenges. It's another thing if she could be your first love. In that case, even if temporary- just get her some competition. Pretend or get temporarily engaged- just DO it!

TIP 6: Tend to her when she falls ill or get tended when you fall ill and make her feelings stronger

In dramas, girls tend to be delicate creatures so there is always a possibility she will fall ill. She will need you during that time to be there! She will be very grateful after recovering. And as she sleeps, you can watch her like a creepy stalker. Or just cuddle up together and fall asleep.

However, if it's you fall who falls ill there is no doubt that she'll help you. So be thankful and get closer to her in this way. It's a perfect excuse to do so.

TIP 7: Give her a piggyback ride

Piggybacks never go out of fashion. No sir, never! Just give it to her when she is drunk, fainting, ill - in whatever situation she is. Don't flag down a cab because piggybacks feel more personal and well... romantic. *cough cough*

The farther the distance, the better it is. If she is awake during that time it will give you a big advantage!

TIP 8: Share an impulsive, surprising or unexpected kiss with her

Do it when you're in the middle of an argument. Or when she's crying. It always works. A kiss is bound to have a strong impact on her and she will keep thinking about it afterward. Since girls are so pure and innocent, it would be her first kiss and that will automatically make her develop feelings for you. And she will be in love - undoubtedly.

You could also have an accidental kiss in front of everyone. That also works a lot of times.

The guy who kisses her first gets her first. If you wait around being a gentleman you will lose. Just grab the opportunity and make good use of it. :D

TIP 9: Get into a Contract Marriage or in a situation where you end up living with each other

What better way to get closer to her than to start living with each other? You could live in the same house and be with each other all the time. This gives plenty of chances to win her over. And surely- this would be one of those situations where you are helping her out indirectly.

TIP 10: Give her all the signs that you love her, but deny your feelings for as long as possible

The love game always has to be interesting. There's no fun in accepting your feelings right away. Just wait and torture both her and yourself. It builds up the angst and when it explodes it is 10 times more fun.

You could also be among those who don't come around to confessing at all and by then it's too late. Timing is everything. Make sure of that.

TIP 11: If there is something that she would get hurt by knowing, don't tell her

It will always be better if she finds out the truth on her own. The longer she is kept in the dark, the longer she will think that you must be hiding something from her. This keeps her interest in you alive. And when she finds out you were doing it for her she will be beyond touched or flattered - depends.

If you magically contract an illness, don't tell her. Be noble and drive her away.

TIP 12: Have a magical confession or a touching proposal at the end of it all

After things are alright and troubles are gone, you have to confess. By this time, assume your meaningless separation is either due or over- just do it. A marriage proposal has to be there. Or a hearty love confession. Trust me- the girl has burned till now and she will go straight to heaven after this. She will accept! Hurrah!