If you're a girl, surely you've had crushes before in your life. You must have fallen for a boy in school, spent your fantasizing about a famous celebrity or plainly wanted to have a fairy tale of your own. Since you're reading this I assume that you are trapped in the world of dramas. You have just met the guy of your dreams or perhaps have a thing for your best friend, but in either case- worry not. This article is all you need to be a guy magnet and have them all fall head over heels for you. Sounds great, doesn't it?
I know how hard life is for most of the girls and some of them have to end up pretending to be a boy in dire situations (I empathize completely). It practically seems impossible for you to get the guy in that situation. But hey...! It was never said that you can't get the guy even if you're dressed as a guy, okay? So relax.
But I want to add one thing, though. Since this is Dramaland we're talking about here, please note that you have to be a good person at heart to win the guy. If you're bad, unpleasant or evil- kindly work to improve upon yourself. Bad people are not wanted anywhere or by anyone. No worries, there will be lots of room for your redemption. Now you can start reading and working on your aim! ;)
TIP 1: Pick a very good-looking guy
He has to be very good-looking. You should try your hand at the guy who looks best. That way, you can flaunt him in front of the whole world. Why the world, you must be thinking. Of course- it's because he's rich and famous so it's only natural that everyone will look at you and envy you.
But... (there's always a but) if you find yourself falling for a guy who's not rich, then try not to. But you must know that feelings can't be controlled. The only thing is that deny them for as long as possible.
Worse- if you're developing feelings for a guy who doesn't know you're a girl - don't worry much and hang on tight. The time shall come.
TIP 2: Looks don't matter much
It doesn't matter how you look, so don't stress over it much. You can be pretty or just average-looking it hardly matters. You could even be dressed as a guy and it won't matter. Remember, the guy will fall for what's inside of you and not the outside. But if you're drop dead gorgeous and he is currently dating you, kindly remain nice, otherwise, there is going to be an ordinary, humble girl who will win over him soon. If you continue your vicious acts then he'll be stolen before you can spell S-T-O-L-E-N. Also, don't abandon the guy for selfish reasons. Once a guy is lost, he is as well as lost forever (or not).
TIP 3: The guy should know about your financial status
Firstly, honesty is good. Secondly, your financial status plays an important role. If your family member left you alone because they were chased by loan sharks, you can take refuge in his house. He'll always help you. And if you are rich and he is poor then try to not make him feel small. This is going to be an obstacle for your relationship. Continue being nice to him and don't show off your money or accessories.
TIP 4: Get into trouble
This is a very dangerous thing to do. If you dare, then proceed at your own caution!
If you put yourself in a situation where your life is in danger, the guy will help you. He will fight off the bad guys and most likely develop a soft corner for you in the process. Plus you get to know each other in such extreme conditions (talk about bonding!). However, if he seems too nice for your taste you can just think of him as your friend. In that case what he feels won't be a something for you to bother about.
TIP 5: Tell him about your problems and listen to his
One of the most important things is getting to know about each other. Make sure you tell him about what a sad life you've had. He will feel empathy for you and develop some more feelings. You can solidify those by getting him to open up to you. Don't you know he must be sad? His Mom or Dad probably abandoned him which made him so different from others. You also probably never had the love of your parents, but it only affects some people, you know! He gets to be excused but you- well... just excuse him and be sweet, ok? And cry a bit by feeling sorry if you can. If he hugs you or does any such thing at that time go along with it. That means your moves have been right so far! Or you can do that too if you please. A guy is best at his most vulnerable.
However, what if he isn't sad? Then you can just share your problems. He can be a listener too, right?!
TIP 6: Take care of him when he is ill, or get taken care of by him
This is a priceless tip. It always works and you should know that by now. No matter what state you're in, just take care of each other. It is a very nice thing to do. Also- be touched if he does that to you. Thank him later if it's possible. However, if he gets back to behaving coldly later you still remain nice to him.
TIP 7: Get stranded in unfamiliar places or be in a situation where you get left alone
Don't tell me you never tried this before. Try to get him into a situation where you end up getting stranded in a new place. It is preferred if you get to spend the night together. The more time you get alone, the better. When you get back to the city the problems will be waiting, so make use of whatever time you have at your hands. This little trip might help him to open up further to you and he will entrust you with some secrets or things no one else knows about. This can help you to get control over him. A bit. You can make use of this situation in whatever way you please.
TIP 8: Make him tasty ramyeon
If he's a rich guy the probability is that he never tasted ramyeon. In that case, you should make him some and you can bond over eating. He will definitely like it. Or take him to the nearby restaurant for him to try it. The coolest idea would be to open your own Ramyeon shop! Ramyeon can be shared by everyone. Even your friend (don't forget him, ok!).
TIP 9: Let him kiss you and hug you or you could do that too
There comes a time when he will be attracted to you. By this point, he will be absolutely wishing that he could kiss you. Even if you're still a 'guy' in his eyes, let him do it. Tag along. If he hugs you then hug him back. If you're shy, you're allowed to keep your eyes open while kissing and ruin the entire experience. If you're uncomfortable then you can stand stiffly and let him do his job. If it was indeed surprising to you- then your reaction can't be helped.
If you happen to be open and impulsive, then you can initiate the kiss or hug too. In that case, he would be the one surprised. In spite of that, he might even reciprocate it! ;)
TIP 10: Make good use of cars
Doesn't driving around with a guy sound fabulous? More so if he's the one you want. Or if you both want each other. Cars give you the privacy for fighting, talking or even kissing. Cars are so useful and handy. They are also perfect getaway devices and if it breaks down in the middle of the road, you can just cuddle and sleep together in the car.
The guy can also get on in his car and go around stalking you in the entire city- so be careful as well.
And of course- they can cause accidents so just take care while driving. We don't want your guy to get into an accident and lose his memory or killing someone. Oh no, please!
TIP 11: Be patient
Granted, you've had your good times be prepared for the bad ones. There will be a time where you'll be tired of waiting for your guy to come around and confessing his feelings. There might be situations that must be difficult for him so keep patience. If you feel like crying, you have your friend's shoulder. He'll provide you with free counseling. Or give you a good time and entertain you. Free of charge!
TIP 12: Be ready for a confession from your guy friend
While you were busy pining for the other, someone else fell for you. Too bad you have no feelings for him. It doesn't matter. Just appreciate the one who was there for you. Let me just give you a thought, though- you are idiot not cool for turning down such guys. (If he fell in love with you without knowing you're a girl, I envy you!) How is it you got all the awesome guys of the world? Oh right. I promised to turn you into a guy magnet and so you did. Congrats!
TIP 13: Accept your fate
If it was meant to be, you surely got your guy. If you were nice surely he fell for you. Or if you weren't nice or clueless in the beginning but decided to change later I am sure it still worked.
If weren't nice and behaved meanly and selfishly - you lost for good. You deserve to end up alone. Or move on. Or you can get the rejected guy friend of your enemy as your consolation prize.
Everyone gets to be happy!
LAST TIP: If you suddenly realized you like your best friend - then run after him!
This article and these tips weren't for you. You got to do all you wanted and behave the way you always did. All that you needed was to realize your own feelings and accept your best friend's love for you. You have the perfect life partner who you've already known all your life. Now, this is a true fairytale! :D
*The End*