Would XY still end up with TJ if XL confessed and changed ?

Looking at the last discussion speaking about the story of XY and XL there was a part where it was said that if XL confessed or something along those lines that XY wouldn't end up with TJ. I kinda disagree with that although i believe that the only ones XY loved where TJ and and XL. I feel that no matter the outcome she would end up with TJ regardless because he was the first person she fell in love with and the one she really acted as a girl towards and much more but u don't want this to be to long. The only way i don't see her ending up with TJ was if he broke his promise. I actually believe that if XL did confessed and would change his ways she would choose both because i just don't see her choosing one over the other but i only read the book once and it was awhile ago so if anyone who has recently read it or have multiple times and have a different or same opinion i would love to hear

 micheal1803:

Looking at the last discussion speaking about the story of XY and XL there was a part where it was said that if XL confessed or something along those lines that XY wouldn't end up with TJ. I kinda disagree with that although i believe that the only ones XY loved where TJ and and XL. I feel that no matter the outcome she would end up with TJ regardless because he was the first person she fell in love with and the one she really acted as a girl towards and much more but u don't want this to be to long. The only way i don't see her ending up with TJ was if he broke his promise. I actually believe that if XL did confessed and would change his ways she would choose both because i just don't see her choosing one over the other but i only read the book once and it was awhile ago so if anyone who has recently read it or have multiple times and have a different or same opinion i would love to hear

I think even if XL confessed to XY, she still wouldn’t choose him because he is still on the enemy side, he is a threat to her loved ones. Unless XL can give up his loyalty and side with CX, which I don’t think he would do it nor would XY ask him to have to choose. Whomever she chooses cannot be someone that would harm CX. XY loves CX more than anyone else, he is her life. 

on my perspective, XY only choose XL only if TSJ didn't exit in this story.  

 Kaseh Esmiralda:

on my perspective, XY only choose XL only if TSJ didn't exit in this story.  

I wish I could agree but General Gong Gong will have to die first before XL is able to be together with XY.  It would be a bad romance had they both decided to be together.  

I find the General Gong Gong is so stupid  for being a resistant soldier because even the Chen Rong royal family surrendered their royal command to the Yellow Emperor.

 WangDuo girlfriend:

I dare to say she doesn't even have the slightest feelings for him tbh. The friendship was built out curiosity and pity. Firstly, XY is an adventurous wanderer whose curiosity is the same level as a cat and their encounter was a coincident. XL's loyalty somehow doesnt rely on the stable side, which makes me doubt they even shared the similar feelings tho. Unlike Jing, she first met him near the lake of course out of pity first as she had the same painful experience as him, but she treasured him and loved him not just as a companion , but as a lover. 

XL sometimes cannot be bothered by some bullshit, Jing in other hand makes sure everything is about her eventho she is really hard to be pleased sometimes

More importantly ,HE NEVER HAD BALLS to confess. BAD GUY FINISH LAST

Personally, I disagree because if she doesn't have any feelings for him these three things would not have occurred:

1. Her mentioning him when talking to her grandpa about the type of man she wanted to end up with

2. Her keeping memories of him and looking at them fondly

3. The conversation near that one prison

(Now book wise, these things listed down below would not have occurred):

1. Her dad told her that her bloodline made the choice for her and to not repeat the same mistakes as her mom

2. Her getting upset when her grandpa tells her to live more freely like AN and she gets mad saying that if she wanted to marry XL would her grandpa let her

3. How devastated she was and the regret she had when he died

4. There's more but I'm honestly too lazy to list them all. 

As for the whole, not having the balls to confess, that's not why they aren't together. He can't just betray gonggong who saved him/adopted him. That whole scene with the slave fight was important because had gonggong not adopted him who knows what kind of life he'd be living. 

Lastly, she pitied both Jing and XL, so to make it seem like she can't have genuine feelings for XL because of pity but somehow that does not apply to Jing is...interesting. 

 micheal1803:

Looking at the last discussion speaking about the story of XY and XL there was a part where it was said that if XL confessed or something along those lines that XY wouldn't end up with TJ. I kinda disagree with that although i believe that the only ones XY loved where TJ and and XL. I feel that no matter the outcome she would end up with TJ regardless because he was the first person she fell in love with and the one she really acted as a girl towards and much more but u don't want this to be to long. The only way i don't see her ending up with TJ was if he broke his promise. I actually believe that if XL did confessed and would change his ways she would choose both because i just don't see her choosing one over the other but i only read the book once and it was awhile ago so if anyone who has recently read it or have multiple times and have a different or same opinion i would love to hear

I think if FFB had immediately said yes when she asked him to also give up everything, they would be together.

I think if XY ever learned what exactly the Poison Love Bug was and did, they would be together.

I've seen this reasoning about XY acting like a girl, and I honestly do not get that. It sounds like a superficial reason.  Both XL and TSJ developed feeling for XY when she was a man.  They fell for XY, not her gender or superficial affectations of gender.

I don't know if it was love, but XY definitely allowed herself to risk something for TSJ -- and he immediately betrayed her. I don't think that fosters trust and love, and TBH, I'm not sure why she keeps giving him chances to stab her in the heart.

But I love Tan Jian Ci's personifies his role here as FFB/XL. Sometimes HIS DOMINENCE  AND EMINENCE win me over , yeah i get swayed by his performance. He embodies a sexy-vampire-nine- head-demons. So im kinda like 50-50

It's already quite obvious she has feelings for XL. It's just that it would be bloody and tragic if she ever chooses him, it doesn't matter if he did confess. And also there were a lot of things that happened in the novel that obviously shows she had feelings for him. 

If he could give up the army and be with her, they could obviously have a chance.