Hello! I'm up for the challenge to find at least one drama that might fit your ask hehe. But I must say, most of those don't have a happy end. I'll hide the ending.
-Coffee and Vanilla : Now I'm just throwing everything at the wall. I did not like this drama, too vapid for my taste. But if you want an unrepentant, unjustified controlling jerk, there you have it. Happy end.
-Jealousy Incarnate: this is a cute funny kind of jerk, but he never changes. Yes, he stops being mean to her after falling for her. But he stays ego driven and superficial in my opinion. Happy ending.
-My heart twinkle twinkle: actually the ML is also the villain. The whole show is a whole exercise in "what if the jerk rich ML realizes early on that he likes the FL and gets to hide his real personality in order to get her by any means possible?" He only learns his lesson when it's way way too late . Happy ending all things considered.
-Ngao Asoke (2008) : this jerk mistreated the FL throughout the whole show, even though she was in love with him from the beginning. At the end, he learns that she actually is a good person and what does he do to get with her? He pranks her into thinking that he's leaving her, so that she has to confess first and he just has to accept her. the ending is: happy ending.
-Que Sera, Sera: he gets with the girl early on and doesn't change. Then things happen and he does change but not in the puppy love kind of way. I actually think you may like this one. The ending is open.
-The King's woman. The ending is sad.
-The master's sun: stays uppity till the very end. Happy end.
-Too late To Say I Love You: stays scheming, ambitious to the very end. Unwilling to accept the FL unconditionally even when feeling desperate to be with her (in a "she has to be pure for me" kind of way).
-when a man loves: he's a gangster, he wants her to see him as a gentleman but at the very moment when it matters, he's still a gangster. Bittersweet/open ending.
-oh my Ghostess: this ML is a cute pretentious type till the end . Happy end.