I just made a MDL account to post this. I need help.

Hi and welcome to MDL. Did you try the recommended dramas to "It's ok not to be ok" yet? Dramas with simmilar vibes should be listed there ;).

https://mydramalist.com/49865-psycho-but-it-s-okay/recs

 Sung wung jin:

So basically I just watched. It’s okay not to be ok and boy it’s the best show ever. I’m looking for something similar. Things I don’t want. Fantasy. Things I do want:

Badass FL who starts cold then warms up. FL chases ML. FL like moon young basically. I don’t mind healing or trauma. But it has to be a rom com too. 

Does anyone know any kdrama that fits my criteria?

I always recommend I have a lover, but really this drama seems to fit a variety of tropes haha. Seriously, the FL is a bad, evil but also badass lawyer. She's very cold and seemingly unfeeling, her husband is part scared/part disgusted of her, but she really wanna be with him. She's not a good person, but of course she has reasons. Stuff happens and all the good people heal from all the trauma end up happy. Definite romance in this. Bonus: this drama is soon to be on Youtube. 

The suspicous housekeeper: the FL does not have a romance in this, weirdly enough. But she's a super cold, poker face, extremely efficient housekeeper who has to take care of a family after the mom died in a traumatic way. Everybody has trauma and gets to heal. Not real romance in this. I highly recommend this drama. 

The FL from Queen of the office is a badass excellent worker, and she and ML gave me the same vibe as It's okay not to be okay. The thing is, I didn't yet finish it and I wouldn't swear that they'll end up together (this drama reminds me of the Let's eat type dramas). 

The innocent man she's a cold badass business woman. Officially he starts chasing first, but really it's murky. To me it seemed like she was the one always chasing but... Loads of trauma for both leads, her especially. Definite romance in this.